McDreamyLover18 Profile
Member Since: 5/3/2009
Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone. It isn't just death we have to grieve. It's life. It's loss. It's change. And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad. The thing we gotta try to remember is that it can turn on a dime. That's how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you can't breathe, that's how you survive. By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, you won't feel this way. It won't hurt this much. Grief comes in its own time for everyone, in its own way. So the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is try for honesty. The really crappy thing, the very worst part of grief is that you can't control it. The best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes. And let it go when we can. The very worst part is that the minute you think you're past it, it starts all over again. And always, every time, it takes your breath away. There are five stages of grief. They look different on all of us, but there are always five. Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance.
RIP GEORGE OMALLEY WE LOVE YOU MerDerfoever<33
32 Comments
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Grey's Anatomy Caption Contest CLXXXIV (11/15/2009)
marriedmymcdreamyy is the funniesttt i lovee ittt
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Grey's Anatomy Season Six Premiere: Second Promo (9/1/2009)
hey does anyone know who is standing infornt of mer when it is just he ron the screen i cant figure it outt 23days
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Tonight's Grey's Anatomy: "Stand By Me" (8/27/2009)
derek scraes me too death in this episodeee but i love ittt it is jjuusttt greaatttttt
529 Forum Posts
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Character Elimination! (11/17/2009)
Meredith - 22
George - 116
Derek - 5
+derek and meredith
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True Meredith and Derek Fans! (11/16/2009)
1. Their conversation "the morning after"
2. PROM EXAM ROOM SEX!
3. The house of candles
4. "Do you still love me?"
5. Derek Dancing
6. The moment out side of Caldwell Prision
7. 5x17 at the end with the batting of the ring and such. I know it's weird but I loved that scene in a sad (throwing things at the screen) way.
8. THE PROPOSAL
9. POST-IT WEDDING
10. Post it framed on the wall!
11. Derek drawing on the wall
12. 5 seconds
13. Flashback to when they first met at the bar
14. "Pick me choose me love me"
15. When Derek showed Mer his trailer for the first time
16. "I want your crappy babies"
17. Breakup kiss, breakup sex.
18. Kidney in a jar
19. "I'll sit by her head, I won't say a word" when Mer had a surgery
20. "I want to marry you. I want to have kids with you. I want to build us a house. I want to settle down and grow old with you. I want to die when I'm 110 years old, in your arms. I don't want 48 uninterrupted hours. I want a lifetime."
21. Ellen Pompeo and Patrick Dempsey chemistry
22. "Even if I yell. Even if you yell. I'm always going to show up"
23. Elevator scenes and kisses
24. In the storage room when Mer is crying and doesn't want her mom to die alone, and he comforts her
25. Doc, and putting him to sleep
26. Patrick Dempsey is gorgeous
27. Bathtub scene
28. When Mer cries after George dies and Derek comforts her
29. when derek came after the bomb went off and too see if mer was alrightt i loved thatt and with the last time they kissed how he remembered itt thats when i knew he was meant for her<
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True Meredith and Derek Fans! (11/16/2009)
1. Their conversation "the morning after"
2. PROM EXAM ROOM SEX!
3. The house of candles
4. "Do you still love me?"
5. Derek Dancing
6. The moment out side of Caldwell Prision
7. 5x17 at the end with the batting of the ring and such. I know it's weird but I loved that scene in a sad (throwing things at the screen) way.
8. THE PROPOSAL
9. POST-IT WEDDING
10. Post it framed on the wall!
11. Derek drawing on the wall
12. 5 seconds
13. Flashback to when they first met at the bar
14. "Pick me choose me love me"
15. When Derek showed Mer his trailer for the first time
16. "I want your crappy babies"
17. Breakup kiss, breakup sex.
18. Kidney in a jar
19. "I'll sit by her head, I won't say a word" when Mer had a surgery
20. "I want to marry you. I want to have kids with you. I want to build us a house. I want to settle down and grow old with you. I want to die when I'm 110 years old, in your arms. I don't want 48 uninterrupted hours. I want a lifetime."
21. Ellen Pompeo and Patrick Dempsey chemistry
22. "Even if I yell. Even if you yell. I'm always going to show up"
23. Elevator scenes and kisses
24. In the storage room when Mer is crying and doesn't want her mom to die alone, and he comforts her
25. Doc, and putting him to sleep
26. Patrick Dempsey is gorgeous
27. Bathtub scene
28. when derek came after the bomb went off and too see if mer was alrightt i loved thatt and with the last time they kissed how he remembered itt thats when i knew he was meant for her<3
