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Mer/Der

Gloria
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Did anyone watch "Scars and Souvenirs" tonite. I tried,but I could not stomach Stupid George,Dizzy Izzie or thatcher.The show is not the same for me any more.I left and did some other things. When I came back Cristina and Mer were talking. I just love them SOoo much. Their friendship is awesome. I sure hope Cristina moves into Mer's house in season 4. They need to be together to help Cristina grieve. I did love the scene where Der and Burke were at the board talking about cristina's ex bf and their past relationship. I love those moments when Der and Burke talk about their woman. I'm sure going to miss that.

Posted 8/3/2007 1:00:00 AM #
Dinofigg
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I agree Gloria. I'm going to miss Burke & Derek's woman talk. : [ And Cristina NEEDS to move in in S4. I also loved the part when Alex kissed Izzie [as his friend]. It was so sweet. I'm happy they are just friends.

Posted 8/3/2007 1:00:00 AM #
Gloria
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Dinnofigg: I never liked Alex with Izzy. She is just NOT HIS TYPE. He is a man who needs to be with a woman with substance. like ( AVA). I always loved those scenes with him and Ava . She helping him study for his exams while he walked and held the baby. To me that is VERY ROMANTIC. The times he would come and sit by her bed and they just talked about all kinds of things and the way they looked at each other, sometimes with no words being said. I just loved that. To me that is real life and real love. Mer/Der had that in S1 and S2. Until Shonda trashed that relationship. I just can't believe this show is ending like this. Oh, and it is coming to a close. This show is head on for a crash and burn. And I for one will be glad when it's gone. At Least us FANS will be able to move on.

Posted 8/16/2007 1:00:00 AM #
PINK MIST
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I can't watch the last 5 episodes that are reruns..its toooo hard..im sooo nervous

Posted 8/20/2007 1:00:00 AM #
Gloria
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Pink: I know what you mean. Tonite I'm feel a need to watch season 1. I'm just depressed about season 4. And season 3 I only liked the first 5 epios. and the epis. "From a whisper to a Scream". The rest was TRASH. Poor writing etc. I cannot go thru another season with this mess. If the FOOLS at ABC don't put back the original writers from season 1/2 and Peter Horton then this show is SOOo OVER. I'm not excited or happy or feel any anticipation like I used to feel in season 1 and 2. I'm at that point where I don't care. I just feel SOOo indifferent towards the show now. It is not the same show we started out with.

Posted 8/22/2007 1:00:00 AM #
PINK MIST
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Ya know gloria...When I buy season 3 I may NEVER see those last 5 epi ever again!!!!TOOOO depressing...I agree about some of the writing..I also know Shonda said when GA initially aired she didn't know how long GA would be on...So now they are doing what LOST is doing with a bunch of filler and stringing us along so they can fill the full 7 years....I wish Shonda would have had a better plan. Shonda already knows who MER and DER is going to end up with so the next 4 years hopefully aren't all BS

Posted 8/23/2007 1:00:00 AM #
lydie44
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Tis the only way anything will ever be right... Meredith and Derek are together, forever. I love the relationship they have, and without it Grey's Anatomy wouldn't be anything at all.

Posted 10/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
sunny214
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I don´t know if this is the right place for my comment. So I posted this in the episode section and here. If this is to much please delete one of it. Hi everybody! I´m new to this site. I love to read your comments on the episodes or on the charakters. You have a really friendly atmosphere so I want to be a part of it. Please forgive me when my english is not right all the time because it is not my first language. .I started grey´s anatomy three weeks ago, and was totally hooked from the beginning. Now I have seen the first and second season complete. The third season I watched till the twelve episode. In our Television we are at episode 19 of the third season. As I mentioned I started to late so episode 13, 14, and 15 I have not seen. But I seen the finale episode of season 3 online. And the beginning of this episode from season four. Enough of me, now to the really important things. Derek for example. I think he is misjudged sometimes. Sure we all want to see him as the perfect guy – mc dreamy – but he is only human. Of course I like all the moments when is dreamy, but I also love his weakness. Sure he make mistakes but he is damaged too. Not only Meredith has a troubled past. I believe before he married Addison, he hadn´t much more women he loved or had sex with. Then he was 10 ( I´m not to sure about that, so sorry if it is not the exact years) years married with Addison. I thought everything was alright and then ….bam… he found the women he loved in bed with another guy. And if this wasn´t bad and hurtful enough the other guy was his best friend – his so called brother – then he met Meredith and wanted reverenge. But he fall in love with her. She saved him as he mentioned to her. Then his wife came back and he had to deal with the situation he had left behind him. Although he really had feelings for Meredith he wanted to give his marriage a second chance because of the history they had. I understand that and it shows what a great man he is. When he finally broke up with Addison, he was sure that they had tried everything to make it work. Also Finn make him clear how deep his feelings for Meredith are. And in the speak between him and Addison he realised that he had hurt her very much and that he although he love her to death, that it will be better for her to stay with Finn, which would never hurt her the way he did it. He stepped back for her to be happy also it meant that he wouldn´t be happy. With this gesture of love from him, she couldn´t choose Finn and I loved him even more for that. Other find it not good for him to do that, but for me it was a big dreamy moment. Then they had bad timing because she had enough time for telling him that she choose him, but of all things she choose exact the moment when he was totally messed up by the info he had become from Addison. That she not only had a one night stand with his best friend, no she had a 8 week long affair with him. And when she not had found Mark with another girl in their bed, she never would ever come to Seattle to save their marriage.If Meredith had really looked at him, she would have seen that he was about to cry in the elevator, if he would have been alone. And that he wasn´t ready for this kind of information. But no she was disappointed that he was not excited enough. In that scene I found Meredith very selfabsorted. As his sister showed up I don´t get it why he said the things to her in the stairway. But he was so confusioned emotionally with the infos from Addison, Meredith and his sister, so I forgave him that. And he change his mind when he was back from the camping with the guys. Then they were a happy couple for a few episodes. Then I thought Meredith makes mistakes. I don´t know for sure if Derek make anything stupid in episode 13,14 or 15 but as I read the reviews I don´t found anything. She had problems and then came the bathroom scene where she wanted to disappear and the ferry accident, where she almost died. Of course Derek is worried about her and why she hadn´t fight more for her live. I think for him it shows that their love wasn´t strong enough, or a good enough reason for her to fight to stay alive. If her mother hadn´t died and talked to her, maybe she had stayed dead. When she had a problem, she talk at first with Christina or George, whatever problem it was. Derek must have felt left outside alone, when for example the things with her father and the death of her stepmother happenend. In the operation scene with George and Derek it is seen how much Derek is hurt when George asked him, you don´t know that from her. I don´t know exactly what it was they were talking about but I know that I was thinking at that scene it must have hurt him that she talk to George about her problem, but not to him. Because that it is what couples normally do, talk about their problems and try to help each other. When he mentioned that woman in the bar, I thought that he wanted her to be jealous. And he was pissed that she not let him be a such big part of her life he wanted to be. I hope that make sence to you. When they talk about it in the locker room, and he let her know his deepest feelings and that she is the love of his life – very dreamy – what did she do. Of all things she could have done, she walked away and again let him feel that he wasn´t important enough to her. That her friends are more important. I so want to huge him in that scene. The episodes from season four I only read your comments but haven´t seen anything of it. Except for one or two scene on youtube. But I can understand that he “want” to date someone new. As I read she wants a secret relationship with him and not even a real relationsship only friends with benefits relationsship. After all they been through together and sweet love statements from his site, to more is she not ready? His date statement is one of the few scene I saw until today. For me he is not happy with it, but he can not go on as before. I think they need some time alone so each one of them can let heal the wounds they got from each other and can grow on. And when both will be ready they can have a real solide and beautiful relationsship without any trust ishues.

Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
McLovinMcDreamy
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i just have to say, i want derek and meredith to just lay in bed and talk about all there problems and then get together, stay together, get married and have many many beautiful children. merder forever.

Posted 11/2/2007 1:00:00 AM #
katkat08
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same here! i just want them to talk about their issue and be together again.. just luv them soo..

Posted 11/2/2007 1:00:00 AM #