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Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

1001. miju
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      To add based on what I've read I expect Cristina to be wasted on Hahn. Hahn is listed as her nemesis in the ABC promotional write up of the first eppy. She is described as her nemesis and then they have some crap in there about Callie being finding the closest friend in Hahn, and then at the end of the description they have something about Hahn being her roommate Cristina's nemesis.

      Whatever, not interested in Cristina being inconvenienced at all by whateve the hell kind of relationship Hahn has with Callie. If they dare show Hahn bulldozing her way into Cristina's apartment and making her feel unconfortable in her own home because she is now hanging out there with her new best friend Callie.....like I said whatever.

       

      Gosh I wish they would kill of Cristina. Or just hurry up and do something really bad that will break the camels back with me so I can just totally give up watching because I no longer have even a snippet of hope left.

      Posted 4/7/2008 5:42:24 PM #
1002. Gloria
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      Okay, WHAT!!! I know this Shonda person  is not having Hahn hang out in Cristina's apartment just because Callie and her are friends. Oh, wait a minute wait a minute. I'm not standing for this. What!!!

      Does everyone here know just how insulting that would be to Sandra O's fans? Even I have  limits!!!

      I'd stop watching in a heart beat. I swear, Shonda is such an evil, vile arrognant unhuman being. This would kill off the rest of the Cristina/Burke fans.

      (All I know is Shonda must REALLY HATE the Cristina/Burke fans,alot more than even I thought.)

      Has anyone noticed how Shonda has gone out of her way to make Hahn seem more important than Cristina?  (Just what the hell is going on?)

       I'll just have to wait till April 24th. I swear, I could just slap the crap out of Shonda right now.

      But, if Hahn does push her way into Cristina's apartment/personal life  I'm done. I will NOT put  up with that.

      I won't be able to watch this crap. I have to go and calm down. This info has truly worked my last nerve.!!!  I'll talk with you all tomorrow.

      Sorry Hafsa,

      I havent seen any pictures yet. No pictures of Cristina?, Just another insult to Cristina's fans. That's how I see it. Iam really sick of this show. Really!!!!!

      Posted 4/7/2008 9:16:24 PM #
1003. miju
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      Hey Gloria-

      I'm not sure how much that nemesis description will play into anything outside of the work environment, but my atennas go up when they use the word with Callie and then mention that she is Cristina's roommate as if it should matter.

      It should only matter IF Cristina actually becomes close to Callie and she is not. It should only matter if Cristina comes home to HER apartment and finds the woman who is freaking annoying her at work, sitting on her living room couch. So I have no idea why they had to mention Callie's relationship with Hahn in the same freaking sentence with Cristina's name. 

      Hahn looks like she's old enough to be Cristina's mother if not much older sister. She to me is in the same damn position as Bailey or even Burke was  or Marlowe in terms of the power these people have over Cristina. They are older than her and supposedly wiser and they are ALL definitely over her at work and in Marlowe's case it was at the university she attended. To me, I am not buying any bullshit that Shonda sells in terms of making Cristina the BAD guy, the predator in relation to these older figures in her life. At the end of the day I DO NOT LIKE the nemesis description because to me Shonda sees Cristina entirely different than I do.

      Should Cristina be taught lessons on humility and compassion and not using sex to get what she wants? Hell yes. Should be tested to try and make it in the profession this time without having any significant other/superior to go running to whine to? Yes. But make no freaking mistake for me, Cristina next to all those characters I have listed is NOT their fucking equal so it is not ok to present her as some manipuliative bitch all around in any scenario with these mentors who are in control and have the final decisions in all matters at SGH.

      Sometimes, I just don't see Shonda as seeing Cristina needing to be taught lessons to improve apon herself. I see Shonda seeing Cristina as some manipulative slut that needs to be punished until the next fiasco, and on and on ultimately showing no growth. This is where I see the hate for the character instead of the vibe that Bailey use to give in her dealings with Cristina in season one and especially two which showed caring for Cristina. She showed toughness of course but she also showed that she cared about Cristina and I have NOT seen that from ANYONE of the elder more mature characters toward Cristina in ages. I've seen that given to Izzie, George, Meredith even Alex recently but I have not see it for Cristina.

      She is not the evil, manipulative, slut incarnate to me and she NEVER will be.

      No, Shonda spouts bullshit like putting "you don't take care of Cristina" in Meredith's mouth and that's that. Cristina does not need taken care of, everyone needs to be cared for, not spoon fed, but cared for and I don't see that for Cristina. If she does not want to be cared for or shown love then that shit needs to be explored because it is NOT normal not to want it and to want it from more than one freaking person.

       

      It is not a good idea at all to refer to Hahn as Cristina's nemesis as if Hahn is even on Cristina's level, she's fucking mentor/elder IMO. She should not be viewed as someone who would be seen as nemesis or enemy of Cristina. Now if we're talking about nemesis as in she is going to be some kind of force that is going to lead Cristina eventually to some kind of redemption, rebirth etc. then ok, because a nemesis can do that as well. But if this shit is going to be some catty bullshit where Cristina is shown at her level I'm not buying it. Hahn has ALL the power, ALL of it.

       

      Posted 4/7/2008 10:08:54 PM #
1004. Gloria
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      Good Morning Everyone.

      Hope you all are having a great weekend. 

      I got an e-mail from Rose yesterday.  She too is having an Problem getting on the site and is unable to post. She wants and hopes she can get back on to post for the next 5 episo. She has dropped Greys and is no longer invested in it. She through out all the pictures, through out all the Greys Magazines everything on her computer and in her home re Greys she trashed. She no longer watches the show and she just may watch the next 5 episodes. But, the main thing is Greys is no longer a part of her life. She said season 3 killed it for her. Her craziness and obsession about Greys is gone. She misses chatting with us, and has lost any interest in discussing the show.

      She says what really got to her was the fact this show was a world  pop culture phenomenom that went bad over nite. Firing IW was the Death Knell for this show.  Chalk it up to EGO and GREED.

      That being said... Rose wants all of us that are hanging in there to not dwell on the mess Shonda has made with the tv jem she started out with. Don't let Shonda's dysfunctional problems drag us down. There are too many better  things we can do with our lives. She has found that letting go and standing back help her drop Greys with NO REGRETS. She calls the repair job Shonda is trying to do a Mickey Mouse job. What Shonda doesn't understand is the so call "fix" for Greys is unrepairable.

      Well that's about it for me. We have lost a lot of wonderful friends here. All due to Shonda/Co's ego and hatetread.  It is such a shame because we use to have such a large Grey's Family here. I will see April 24th episo. I just want to see Cristina. If April 24th pisses me off I won't see the last 4.

      I too have been SOooo discussed with this show for quite a while. And these next 1-5 episo. Will either hold me (or ) Push me over the edge.

      I'm just tired of being tired. 

      jUST A NOTE:

      I've been reading these past few monthe that PP  is not that good and the mags reviews about it is, that the show needs some creative writing. (Poor Kate) I don't watch PP.

      I hope that the rest of my Greys family who can't get through to post, will be able to by April 24th and those that have dropped Greys will come back  to see the last 5 episos.

      So..To:  Rose,BF,Lilliana,Nurse4, Dinno,IAAG,Ausfan,BurkeBacker,Irish,Kat,Hafsa,CPK84 and Bayfront  I just want to say I miss you all very much. and I'm so happy that I have met you all. Love Ya!!!

      Okay, I'm going now. I'll check in later or tomorrow.

       

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      Posted 4/12/2008 12:42:43 PM #
1005. Gloria
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      I forgot to mention BelgianGrey and Bordeaux. Love Ya.

      Posted 4/12/2008 12:44:27 PM #
1006. hafsa
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      Gloria,

      We miss and love you too, how have you been? And how is your campaign going. I felt so sad after reading your post, you guys please don’t leave…..the grey family site was actually the reason I joined the forum in the first place. I have been reading your posts for months before registered and I figured I have finally found a place where I can vent and chat and talk about what I want to talk about.

      I pray the next five epis will be able to bring everyone back.

      Gloria, have you seen the lasted promo and pics? There was one of Christina shouting ‘his intestines are out…’or something similar to that. I don’t know why but I still do get upset anytime I see rose, and I she appears to be almost everywhere in the new pics.

      Talk to you guys later.

       

      Posted 4/12/2008 4:29:25 PM #
1007. Gloria
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      Hi Hafsa,

      I'm just sitting here listening to my Grey's music. Right now I'm so dissapointed in this show, I can barely speak at times. I just about cried when Rose sent me the e-mail. Because, I saw the hand writing on the walls.  To go back to Mer. "It's over!! It's SOoo over.!!! And it truly is. I guess I'm just really seeing it for the first time.

      I'm not having a good Greys day today.  I just miss all the fun we all used to have here and on the other site. Even when we disagreed. And it's gone..Just gone. I have never in my life been this disappointed in television in my life. One thing I do know I will never invest my time or energy in anything else Shonda writes,produces etc. If  I never hear her name again it will be too soon. The next 5 episo will determine what I do.  The music playing now is Please Remember by Leann Rimes.  Season 3 I made this my theme song for Burke/Cristina I cry everytime I hear this wonderful, loving song.If you ever get a chance listen to this song. It is Pure Burke/Cristina.

      I can see him wrap his arms around Cristina and hold her while she laughs and they kiss. Pure Perfect. Just Perfect.!!!

      Listening to K.T. Tunstall sing Other Side of the World, when Der hurt Mer so bad.  Rosie Thomas sing It Don't Matter to the Sun, Snow Patrol sing..Make this go on forever and Somewhere a Clock is ticking, Michelle Featherstone sing..Stay and the Rest of My Life. This was when Grey's was OUTSTANDING and the ONLY SHOW everyone was talking about. This show used to be  the must see  SHOW to WATCH. Now no one is talking about it. It's not even on any of the entertainment mags list of must see shows.

      Hafsa I'm going now. Hope to talk to you later. I'll be around for a little while. We have each others e-mails so When I do jump ship, I'll still talk with you. And I'll come back here to see what you all are talking about. I just won't be involved in watching the show any more.

      You know Miju made a good point last post. If they just kill Cristina off that would really help me close the door. What would be wonderful If Burke came back for her and they left together. But, we all know Shonda does not do HAPPINESS!!!

      Okay, I'm really going now.

      Posted 4/12/2008 6:06:17 PM #
1008. miju
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      Hey Gloria-

      I wish they would just wrap the story up and quite frankly I've gotta say, that I never say her relationship with Burke resulting in the white picket fence at all or at least not without interruption. I always saw a break-up and I always pictured her getting pregnant and wanting to keep the baby the second time around, having truly acknowledged that she loved Burke and wanting to now have a part of him and the love they shared even though it did not work. I always saw a huge break in the relationship at some point in time and  I never saw this couple being written with either her nor Burke entertaining the idea of dating other people during that time, especially not within the vincinity of one another.

      I actually pictured some of the scenarios in fanfics which would have put IW on almost like recurring status at the least if they were actually going to actually have them separate and him leave and then have them hook up at the end to wrap up the story.

      I gotta say, I just don't picture her with anyone else, not necessarily because it's inconceivable, but there just seems to be so much work she needs to do within herself, and I seriously can't see ANY other man coming along after what went down with her and Burke, coming along and bringing any of that out of her as she has to do that herself. The only person I actually see her falling in love with is a baby because of what it will represent to her now seeing all she's been through.

      That's the story I see for her and have for some time now, like since season two.

       

      Posted 4/13/2008 12:04:11 AM #
1009. Gloria
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      Hey Out there to my Greys family. Hope you all are doing well.

      Just received an e-mail from BelgianGrey.

      Been busy with the presidential Campaign. The debate was last nite. It was awesome. The place was full of people and the candiates were great.

      Hafsa,

      I just saw the promo for 4/24. Okay, would someone explain to me WHY OH WHY did Mer say to that  jack- - -  I would leave if I could. That's Mer's HOME (Seattle) Der is the outsider. He is there pissing all over her territory. If anyone should leave it's HIM!!! That scene pissed me off. Mer should not even be contemplating a move. All she has to do is mention to the Chief that she is unhappy working there with Der. I'm quite sure the Chief would gladly make arrangements for him to go somewhere else. (This would be a good time for Mer to show her MOTHERS SIDE)  The Chief is not going to stand around while Mer is unhappy/miserable, while Der flaunts his trashy girlfriend.

      Okay, Cristina knocking over dizzy Izzy is just too funny for words.

      Glad to see the Chief helping Alex. Now, can the writers do the same for Cristina???

      I'm still trying to figure out who Rose is talking too when she says I love him. It appears the person has dark hair. I first thought it was Mark. But, now I think it's a woman. Dark hair..UMm Callie?  Why would Rose be talking to Callie?

      Maybe Addie, She's coming back with Dark hair, at least in the promo's.

      Actually I could see Addie saying something to her about Der/Mer. And it even looks like Rose has an attitude, like who cares.

       

      I have a question to all my  Greys female family.

      If we were in Mer's situation  from day one till now. After all they have been thru,all the Loving and the marry me speeches, I have loved you forever speech, I want to build us a home speech having babies and the I CAN'T LEAVE YOU SPEECH etc,etc.

      Would you say if the man left you for another woman because you COULD NOT COMMIT TO HIM  the way he wanted you to. And you both still have feelings for each other. Would you be understanding of what he did by leaving you? OR even why he did it???

      I'm just asking. I have a definite opinion about this type of treatment.

      I hope everyone can post a reply. I find  Mer/Der relationship a little un settling re: how his treatment of her is handled. But, That's just me.

      Posted 4/17/2008 1:51:26 PM #
1010. hafsa
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      Hey Gloria,

      How have you been?

      You know the whole merder r/ship is still making me angry…… I saw the new promo and to tell you the truth I am very upset. Doesn’t Derek have any human feelings?....why the public display of affection?.....hence kissing rose when mer was watching?.......Shonda is making it very difficult for me to re-like Derek’s character....his speeches are tainted forever......i hope shonda wouldnt make mer beg again....that will be the degradation of all times........

      No matter mer’s faults, there is no way any woman should be treated like the way der has been treating mer……are we to believe she will forgive him?  

      Why does rose look defensive when she said she loves him? The bottom line is I don’t der/rose are so not my favorite pple.

      Talk to you guys later……

       

      Posted 4/17/2008 6:12:00 PM #

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