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Maybe it is the danger of loosing Derek that will make Meredith realize that she cannot live without him. It could be a good thing, rather than a bad thing.Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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The promo: http://tvnewsinfo.blogspot.com/2007/05/greys-anatomy-promo-324-testing-1-2-3.html A Sneak! http://tvnewsinfo.blogspot.com/2007/05/greys-anatomy-abc-sneak-1-324-testing-1.htmlPosted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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Why does anybody want Christina to do it Burkes way? She is a grown up woman with a mind of her own and if she doesn't want a puffy wedding and doesn't belief in swearing deep and unconditional love forever - hey, what is wrong about that if she truly feels like that. And why is Burke pushing her so damn hard in a direction he must know she doesn't want? They have been fine so far. Christina has changed from mean and over-competitive to a woman with emotions but he cannot try to totally change her character. That is dangerous. I think it is much too early for this wedding! Derek needs a little help for his selfconfidence to rebuild and flirting in the bar could help, but he loves Meredith and will not go too far. Maybe the woman could be his Finn, the better girl, but he still wants dark and twisty Meredith because it is karma or whatever... Alex is not that much a mystery to me: did you forget about his father being a heroine addict and Alex talking about bad childhood: all you have to do is survive it. He digged himself out of a very troubled childhood and youth, that is what I always saw him connecting with teenage-mom Izzie. He can be very proud on what he has achieved. Meredith had a privileged but yet bad childhood and youth and she should go and see a therapist or something to get rid of the shadows. Actually I start to think she is not the person to make Derek happy even though I would want her to be the one, but maybe just because I'm used to want to see them together. Now, that is hard to explain, especially in a foreign language: it is like a married couple getting a divorce and you have always seen them as a good couple and just can't imagine to see either one of them with someone else. It doesn't mean they are the perfect couple, but it always seemed too you like they were. Last Comment: in the preview: who is on the floor when Richard yells for help?Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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H Pschyrembel , mi guess is that is Adele, the chief´s wifw on the bathroom floor!Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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I am not sure I totally agree with the Cristina talk. I think that Cris is a strong and independent woman that has also been a robot for a long time. No feelings, not emotion and that is not a good way to be. Burke may be changing her, but mostly for the better. He has helped her open up and become more human. Now the wedding, I am not sure if it should all be Burke's way, I think that there does need to be compromise and on the wedding, they could work something out. I do not think thought that being sacrificial for the one you love is wrong. Real love is sacrificial most of the time. Giving of yourself, even if it is not what you want. Putting the needs of the other person first; that is what most wedding vows say in the first place.Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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ok I am in agreement that Meredith has to be the one who lets Derek in, but the problem I have is that she keeps having these horrible things happen to her (in a relatively short period of time), and I mean collossal things, the kind of tragedies and life occurrences that change people and it's going to be hard for her to let Derek in when she's been kicked in the teeth so many times....Derek finally told her how he felt and she responded pretty quickly in the right way, and then yet again, someone close to her dies, her father slaps her in the face and blames her for Susan's death and Meredith reverts back to her safe shell that has gotten her to where she is today and through her tortuous relationship with her mother......can you blame the girl...... I think it's unrealistic for Derek to think that Meredith can work on the things she needs to work on when the world just keeps falling down on her. Now if she could get some stability in her life then I think we could start to see Meredith letting Derek in, and we started to see that .....up until they decided to kill fake mommy. That's why I have such a problem with Derek giving up on her right now. I understand he has a right to feel the way he feels, but I think he has to appreciate what Meredith has had to go through just to keep her head on straight in the last few months, none of which were her fault. Also I think Meredith has to learn to trust Derek after the mess that was the end of Season 1 and almost all of Season 2. The minute they finally got together in Season 3, all hell broke loose and neither Meredith or Derek had the chance to work on and create a normal relationship. Now if Shonda and crew could give both of them the stability they need in order to work on the relationship, I think we would see great things, but as long as they keep throwing Meredith in front of a train, there's no way that can happen.....at least that's my view!Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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I really think that you are right Trisha. I have a feeling that, that is what season 4 will be. I think that it is going to be the season where all that has occurred this season gets dealt with. I also think that Derek and Meredith will find a way to work through all of the wreckage that is in their way and become stronger for it. Both of these characters have so much baggage to deal with. I think that some of it will get thrown over board and they will be able to become a more healthy couple. It will just take time.Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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Hey everyone! Mcdreamy02 I totally agree with you about the Cristina and the wedding thing! Cristina has changed drastically over the 3 seasons I mean she went from a robot with no feelings to a human being with real emotions for the people she loves the most! and Burke has helped alot with her changing if he hadn't lead her I am sure that they would not be together right now because he has pretty much lead in the relationship but there is nothing wrong with that because it works for them, Cristina doesn't kow how to open up to anyone but Burke is sort of pushing her to and thats a good thing because if she didn't open up at all she would still be that robot she wouldn't be the real woman with emotions. And she is still a competitvie independant person she does not rely on Burke, because to me she always shocks me when her and Burke have a fight or something she is the one that comes around like in the episode don't stand so close to me when her and Burke weren't talking she still got on that elevator with him to support him no matter what, and then even though they weren't talking she would sit in his room with him in silence, and lastly Cristina was the one to speak first because like she said shes in this for the long haul, this just shows she does not want to lose Burke and shes not losing herself because this is just her way of opening up to the man she loves the most. And about the wedding I totally think that this is the right time for them to get married because they have been toegther for what seems like forever, and they have been through so much together and they have stayed together through it all I just think they both deserve to get married and be happy again like they used to, because this season they have had some very very bad times! And I think Cristina is thinking of this wedding like its only one day so she can give Burke what he wants for one day, and thats what shes thinking of because she wants to make him happy but he is also worried about her because he knows she doesn't want a big wedding and hes worried that he is pushing her too much so they are both just worried and trying to make each other happy and like mcdreamy02 said there does need to be a comprimise between them, but I do think that by the end of the season finale we will have Mr and Mrs Preston Burke! lol well at least I hope so I mean they love each other and care for each other so much! they soo need to get married and be happy!Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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So many references to breathing eg recently Burke to Christina breath,sip and breath;Mer to George you need to breath;Susan to Thatcher breathing into a paper bag linking to Derek helping Mer breath using a paper bag the whole MerDer breathing/drowning and Derek telling Mer about being with her was like coming up for fresh air in season2. I dont think there is any doubt that Derek and Meredith will eventually be breathing together but watching those breathing lessons are really exhausting.Posted 5/6/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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Meredith has been through more than a healthy and stable person could go through without damage - I totally agree, I'm just getting exhausted like many of you. So please help me stay. I met a few people in my life that are just unhappy - they always will be no matter what. It is hard to accept it, but I'm totally afraid Meredith is one of these unhappy ones even though she doesn't deserve it - no one does. About Christina: I like her for being Christina, not for becoming a stereotype of a caring, loving etc. woman. I think she might even have stronger feelings for Burke than other women have towards their future husbands, but she is not the person to show a lot and that is O.K. She wouldn't be Christina anymore if she totally became outgoing, puffy and freaking out for the wedding. Maybe she will surprise all of us with a real -Christina kind of vow that will just take our breaths away. I just wanted to point out that no one in a relationship has the right to rebuild his or her partner and that Burke has done a good job on helping Christina to finally be herself (with emotions and all her warm personality), but he starts to go too far. But in the end- he is just a human beeing and humans tend to make mistakes especially if they love.Posted 5/7/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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