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I know this sounds stupid, but if Rebecca left Alex her shirt, what did she wear home? I think Mark's comments to Meredith made her feel really good, and I have a sneaking suspicion that it's going to give Meredith that boost of confidence to keep "evolving" and I think we're going to see some changes in her over the next little while in an even bigger way than we have seen up until this point. Hey Psychyrembel, it's good to see you again. I totally agree with you. Derek is a very emotional guy and he often gets beat up a bit by his emotional side. That was an excellent comment you made. Well off to bed, just more thoughts about Grey's as usual. I can't stop saying it but Alex and Rebecca are mmm mmm mmm!!!!! Hope everyone's having a great weekend.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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Hi everybody! I´m new to this site. I love to read your comments on the episodes or on the charakters. You have a really friendly atmosphere so I want to be a part of it. Please forgive me when my english is not right all the time because it is not my first language. .I started grey´s anatomy three weeks ago, and was totally hooked from the beginning. Now I have seen the first and second season complete. The third season I watched till the twelve episode. In our Television we are at episode 19 of the third season. As I mentioned I started to late so episode 13, 14, and 15 I have not seen. But I seen the finale episode of season 3 online. And the beginning of this episode from season four. Enough of me, now to the really important things. Derek for example. I think he is misjudged sometimes. Sure we all want to see him as the perfect guy – mc dreamy – but he is only human. Of course I like all the moments when is dreamy, but I also love his weakness. Sure he make mistakes but he is damaged too. Not only Meredith has a troubled past. I believe before he married Addison, he hadn´t much more women he loved or had sex with. Then he was 10 ( I´m not to sure about that, so sorry if it is not the exact years) years married with Addison. I thought everything was alright and then ….bam… he found the women he loved in bed with another guy. And if this wasn´t bad and hurtful enough the other guy was his best friend – his so called brother – then he met Meredith and wanted reverenge. But he fall in love with her. She saved him as he mentioned to her. Then his wife came back and he had to deal with the situation he had left behind him. Although he really had feelings for Meredith he wanted to give his marriage a second chance because of the history they had. I understand that and it shows what a great man he is. When he finally broke up with Addison, he was sure that they had tried everything to make it work. Also Finn make him clear how deep his feelings for Meredith are. And in the speak between him and Addison he realised that he had hurt her very much and that he although he love her to death, that it will be better for her to stay with Finn, which would never hurt her the way he did it. He stepped back for her to be happy also it meant that he wouldn´t be happy. With this gesture of love from him, she couldn´t choose Finn and I loved him even more for that. Other find it not good for him to do that, but for me it was a big dreamy moment. Then they had bad timing because she had enough time for telling him that she choose him, but of all things she choose exact the moment when he was totally messed up by the info he had become from Addison. That she not only had a one night stand with his best friend, no she had a 8 week long affair with him. And when she not had found Mark with another girl in their bed, she never would ever come to Seattle to save their marriage.If Meredith had really looked at him, she would have seen that he was about to cry in the elevator, if he would have been alone. And that he wasn´t ready for this kind of information. But no she was disappointed that he was not excited enough. In that scene I found Meredith very selfabsorted. As his sister showed up I don´t get it why he said the things to her in the stairway. But he was so confusioned emotionally with the infos from Addison, Meredith and his sister, so I forgave him that. And he change his mind when he was back from the camping with the guys. Then they were a happy couple for a few episodes. Then I thought Meredith makes mistakes. I don´t know for sure if Derek make anything stupid in episode 13,14 or 15 but as I read the reviews I don´t found anything. She had problems and then came the bathroom scene where she wanted to disappear and the ferry accident, where she almost died. Of course Derek is worried about her and why she hadn´t fight more for her live. I think for him it shows that their love wasn´t strong enough, or a good enough reason for her to fight to stay alive. If her mother hadn´t died and talked to her, maybe she had stayed dead. When she had a problem, she talk at first with Christina or George, whatever problem it was. Derek must have felt left outside alone, when for example the things with her father and the death of her stepmother happenend. In the operation scene with George and Derek it is seen how much Derek is hurt when George asked him, you don´t know that from her. I don´t know exactly what it was they were talking about but I know that I was thinking at that scene it must have hurt him that she talk to George about her problem, but not to him. Because that it is what couples normally do, talk about their problems and try to help each other. When he mentioned that woman in the bar, I thought that he wanted her to be jealous. And he was pissed that she not let him be a such big part of her life he wanted to be. I hope that make sence to you. When they talk about it in the locker room, and he let her know his deepest feelings and that she is the love of his life – very dreamy – what did she do. Of all things she could have done, she walked away and again let him feel that he wasn´t important enough to her. That her friends are more important. I so want to huge him in that scene. The episodes from season four I only read your comments but haven´t seen anything of it. Except for one or two scene on youtube. But I can understand that he “want” to date someone new. As I read she wants a secret relationship with him and not even a real relationsship only friends with benefits relationsship. After all they been through together and sweet love statements from his site, to more is she not ready? His date statement is one of the few scene I saw until today. For me he is not happy with it, but he can not go on as before. I think they need some time alone so each one of them can let heal the wounds they got from each other and can grow on. And when both will be ready they can have a real solide and beautiful relationsship without any trust ishues.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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Hmm... hiya everyone, have you read this spoiler yet? GREY'S ANATOMY - "Forever Young" - The ER is filled with teenagers after a schoolbus crash, Bailey treats a patient who was her high school crush, Derek goes out on a date with a fellow doctor, and Thatcher enters the ER looking for Meredith, on "Grey's Anatomy," THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 15 (9:00-10:02 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network. (ABC/RICHARD CARTWRIGHT) CHANDRA WILSON, PATRICK DEMPSEY Like i said derek is so not my favorite person at the moment. What exactly is he trying to achieve? make mer jealous? I bet its sidney or the new comer laura or whatever her name is. What does Thatcher want from mer now? this guy annoys the crap out of me.... i lost respect for him the day he slapped mer he better not upset her again.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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Interesting Hafsa, well I think we've all known that Derek was going to date, especially after this week and after the news about Lauren Stamile being his "potential new love interest". I may not like it, but it will be interesting to see how Meredith and Derek are going their separate ways, and how they will find their way back to each other, as I have to believe they will. I have no idea where things are going but I've decided to put my stock in Alex and Rebecca for the time being and forget about the Mer/Der of it all, besides I'm running out of Pepto.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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hi everyone and welcome to all of the new posters in here -- there are quite a few of you! :) i think i am finally to the point now where i can no longer attempt to analyze der/mer or invest so much of my angst in the "mer/der of it all". it's time to just sit back and watch because all the wishing and hoping in the world changes nothing -- certainly not shonda's vision for the show. ughhhh i think i'm on one of my downslides again. where's matt? lolPosted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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*Sigh* well Trisha hello there, i guess i will have to do the same, you know put my stock on some other couple at the moment. However, the problem is i like all the other couples as well but i LOVE merder. Yeah i know big problem... not good not all.. grrr!Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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I totally agree luvthisshow. That's where I've gotten to as well. I have no idea where Matt is, it's not like him not to post a review after an episode. Matt are you ok? On that note, I think it will be interesting to see how Dr. Hahn fits into the mix. Also I'm wondering if Cristina and Caillie will develop a friendship that could put a damper on the Mer/Cristina relationship since both of them are lamenting over their failed relationships in a way that's different from what Meredith is experiencing. Just a thought. I hope Rebecca comes back and we see what Alex has to say...I can't wait to learn more about what makes Alex himself. I hope we get to see more of that.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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Hello. I read that spoiler too. I figured Lauren S. was not going to be his sister, but I didn't realize she would be appearing so soon. Like Trisha, I am going to focus on Alex/Ava and take a breather from rooting for Mer/Der. I still think they have amazing chemistry but they need to find out who they are seperate of each other.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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From what i have seen thus far,Shonda is trying her possible best to keep these two apart. I guess she is succeeding on so many different levels, which is sad by the way. What i am even more scared of is when She is ready to put them back together people wont be that interested anymore.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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interesting and sad point hafsa. I hope she doesn't wait that long to finally get them together. Does it frustrate anyone that the only semi healthy relationship we have seen on this show (Bailey and Tucker) gets next to no air time and now they are in trouble? I know there is n such thing as the perfect relationship but hell. Some people have somewhat healthy ones.Posted 10/28/2007 1:00:00 AM #
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