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  1. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    Hey Gloria-

    I wish they would just wrap the story up and quite frankly I've gotta say, that I never say her relationship with Burke resulting in the white picket fence at all or at least not without interruption. I always saw a break-up and I always pictured her getting pregnant and wanting to keep the baby the second time around, having truly acknowledged that she loved Burke and wanting to now have a part of him and the love they shared even though it did not work. I always saw a huge break in the relationship at some point in time and  I never saw this couple being written with either her nor Burke entertaining the idea of dating other people during that time, especially not within the vincinity of one another.

    I actually pictured some of the scenarios in fanfics which would have put IW on almost like recurring status at the least if they were actually going to actually have them separate and him leave and then have them hook up at the end to wrap up the story.

    I gotta say, I just don't picture her with anyone else, not necessarily because it's inconceivable, but there just seems to be so much work she needs to do within herself, and I seriously can't see ANY other man coming along after what went down with her and Burke, coming along and bringing any of that out of her as she has to do that herself. The only person I actually see her falling in love with is a baby because of what it will represent to her now seeing all she's been through.

    That's the story I see for her and have for some time now, like since season two.

     

    Posted 4/13/2008 12:04:11 AM #
  2. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    Hey Gloria-

    I'm not sure how much that nemesis description will play into anything outside of the work environment, but my atennas go up when they use the word with Callie and then mention that she is Cristina's roommate as if it should matter.

    It should only matter IF Cristina actually becomes close to Callie and she is not. It should only matter if Cristina comes home to HER apartment and finds the woman who is freaking annoying her at work, sitting on her living room couch. So I have no idea why they had to mention Callie's relationship with Hahn in the same freaking sentence with Cristina's name. 

    Hahn looks like she's old enough to be Cristina's mother if not much older sister. She to me is in the same damn position as Bailey or even Burke was  or Marlowe in terms of the power these people have over Cristina. They are older than her and supposedly wiser and they are ALL definitely over her at work and in Marlowe's case it was at the university she attended. To me, I am not buying any bullshit that Shonda sells in terms of making Cristina the BAD guy, the predator in relation to these older figures in her life. At the end of the day I DO NOT LIKE the nemesis description because to me Shonda sees Cristina entirely different than I do.

    Should Cristina be taught lessons on humility and compassion and not using sex to get what she wants? Hell yes. Should be tested to try and make it in the profession this time without having any significant other/superior to go running to whine to? Yes. But make no freaking mistake for me, Cristina next to all those characters I have listed is NOT their fucking equal so it is not ok to present her as some manipuliative bitch all around in any scenario with these mentors who are in control and have the final decisions in all matters at SGH.

    Sometimes, I just don't see Shonda as seeing Cristina needing to be taught lessons to improve apon herself. I see Shonda seeing Cristina as some manipulative slut that needs to be punished until the next fiasco, and on and on ultimately showing no growth. This is where I see the hate for the character instead of the vibe that Bailey use to give in her dealings with Cristina in season one and especially two which showed caring for Cristina. She showed toughness of course but she also showed that she cared about Cristina and I have NOT seen that from ANYONE of the elder more mature characters toward Cristina in ages. I've seen that given to Izzie, George, Meredith even Alex recently but I have not see it for Cristina.

    She is not the evil, manipulative, slut incarnate to me and she NEVER will be.

    No, Shonda spouts bullshit like putting "you don't take care of Cristina" in Meredith's mouth and that's that. Cristina does not need taken care of, everyone needs to be cared for, not spoon fed, but cared for and I don't see that for Cristina. If she does not want to be cared for or shown love then that shit needs to be explored because it is NOT normal not to want it and to want it from more than one freaking person.

     

    It is not a good idea at all to refer to Hahn as Cristina's nemesis as if Hahn is even on Cristina's level, she's fucking mentor/elder IMO. She should not be viewed as someone who would be seen as nemesis or enemy of Cristina. Now if we're talking about nemesis as in she is going to be some kind of force that is going to lead Cristina eventually to some kind of redemption, rebirth etc. then ok, because a nemesis can do that as well. But if this shit is going to be some catty bullshit where Cristina is shown at her level I'm not buying it. Hahn has ALL the power, ALL of it.

     

    Posted 4/7/2008 10:08:54 PM #
  3. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    To add based on what I've read I expect Cristina to be wasted on Hahn. Hahn is listed as her nemesis in the ABC promotional write up of the first eppy. She is described as her nemesis and then they have some crap in there about Callie being finding the closest friend in Hahn, and then at the end of the description they have something about Hahn being her roommate Cristina's nemesis.

    Whatever, not interested in Cristina being inconvenienced at all by whateve the hell kind of relationship Hahn has with Callie. If they dare show Hahn bulldozing her way into Cristina's apartment and making her feel unconfortable in her own home because she is now hanging out there with her new best friend Callie.....like I said whatever.

     

    Gosh I wish they would kill of Cristina. Or just hurry up and do something really bad that will break the camels back with me so I can just totally give up watching because I no longer have even a snippet of hope left.

    Posted 4/7/2008 5:42:24 PM #
  4. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    Thanks Gloria.

    As for no pictures of Cristina, for myself, I expected nothing more than no pictures of her.

     

    In terms of Meredith even though there are no pictures, I have no doubt she will be a major focus of the show once it returns, based on everything I've read, she, Derek and their journey back to each other will be focus.

     

    Posted 4/7/2008 5:36:02 PM #
  5. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Here's a Burke and Cristina fanfic that I love. It's called "Little Wonders" and I can't wait till the author continues the story; it has seven chapters so far and I just love it. I was reading back around the holidays before the new year and then it only had three chapters. So I can't for more on this one.

    http://www.fanfiction.net/s/3948467/1/Little_Wonders

    Posted 4/6/2008 12:32:59 PM #
  6. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    Hey Gloria,

     

    Do you remember the address of this site, with all the pissed off SO/Cristina fans? I'd like to read their comments.

    Posted 4/5/2008 11:18:27 PM #
  7. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    Hey Gloria-

    She sure does seem to HATE Cristina to me. It's because I get the vibe that it's OK that Cristina not have any kind of healthy bond with her mother or not care or act like it does not bother her that she does not have that bond and that's bullshit to me. I don't care how driven a person is or how unconventional EVERYONE wants to be loved by their parents first and foremost. But it's only Ok for this to be an obvious ongoing issue for Meredith or Izzie who by the way got to call her mother in season one so that WE viewers could see her reaching out to her after not having spoken to her in a long time because of the issues between that mother and daughter.

     

    Shonda truly acts as if Meredith understanding Cristina or tolerating her or whatever the fuck one wants to call it is enough for the character of Cristina and if she thinks that is enough then she clearly does not love this character the way I think she should be loved.

    She wants Meredith healthy in mind and spirit, well what about Cristina?  I get the vibe that she gives a shit about Izzie, I don't get that vibe on Cristina and she does not care that much about Alex either but to me she does not have OTHER characters shit on his name as she does Cristina. She even had Alex referring to her as  a robot which was bullshit because he spent the first episode of the season in a scene with Cristina in which they both conveyed to each other how they were truly  "feeling" feeling being the operative word, something a robot does not do.

     

    Posted 4/4/2008 12:09:10 PM #
  8. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    I love Bailey so she is about the only person at this point that I can stand Cristina helping. I love Meredith too for loving Cristina and accepting her the way she does, but I really can't take Cristina helping Meredith because I truly see them as equally challenged in terms of intimacy/emotions and relationships and sometime Cristina has appeared worse to me, so I find it total bullshit when Cristina is constantly written to be helping Meredith on this front. Why? Because they write it as if Cristina does not have the same freaking issues.

    Now if in helping Miranda Cristina ends up being forced to reflect on her relationship with Burke then I will be even more pleased with this interaction. I very much remember how close it appeared that Cristina and Miranda were when this began, it was like Miranda was Cristina's mentor and somewhere along the lines of Tremorgate and even before that, that all disappeared. I really noticed the distance especially when Bailey started handholding the likes of George and izzie, not that I can complain about her support when George's father died but for the rest of his bullshit issues as well as Izzie's forget about it.

    Posted 4/2/2008 10:49:23 AM #
  9. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

     

    "So, the first episo/ april 24th Cristina is helping Bailey?? I don't have a problem with her helping Bailey  ( Cristina has a kind heart Thanks to Burke)"

     

    Wait, where did you read that Cristina would be helping out Bailey in this episode?

     

     

    Posted 4/1/2008 4:07:53 PM #
  10. Forever friends of Burke & Cristina

    To me, the character just had a huge relationship end horribly, and has got little to know screentime in showing her dealing with it. Unfortunately, the writers on this show are that juvenile and incompetent that they can't write for a character who just got left at the altar, has had a father disappear from her life in the fashion that he did, does not have a good relationship with her mother, has a serious "lolita" vibe to the men she chooses to hook up with, yet she needs a bed bunny for them to write for her, to continue to show a process of growth or tearing down of the character continued to eventually build her back up. Yes, unfortunately on this show, they seem to need bed bunnys to put pen to paper. I mean, that's how I see this interaction to be or not to be Hahn's prized resident, this should be written as some kind of tool to continue to deconstruct the character we've seen for three seasons and if it's not then it's pointless. I doubt it is because these writers can only write bed bunnies. The storyline means nothing if she's stomping her feet and whining about how Hahn has picked say Izzie as the resident. What is the point of that if it never leads to any self-reflection even more importantly doubt of her skills as doctor. Then if she ends up doubting her skills, and she's just got left at the altar after pretty much identify herself as via doing whatever she can to make the man who just left her happy? Then she should end up going through some serious identity crisis. She's had two things in her life now she's back to trying to solely identify herself as heart surgeon intent on being the best heart surgeon, if she loses that...... I don't need to see Cristina fighting to prove that she loves Cardio, I watched that for three going on four seasons already. This is like groundhogs day, if at the end of it all someone crowns her princess of Cardio the end, she has now earned the right to truly claim that she is serious about cardio WTF? At this point really, WTF kind of storyline is that? See I can't get how in the hell a competent writer would be confused here or at a loss, can't see it at all.

    Posted 3/25/2008 7:49:12 PM #
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