I'v been reading what everyone said. I think Meredith and Derek make up the best couple on the show. However, in real life if some guy (I'm married 24 years) who I was in love with told me he didn't want to be with me anymore, I would have no recourse but to move on and find someone who would love me. That's what's happening. He wants marriage. She doesn't. He has to move on. It's the way the character is written. He can't pine forever for someone who doesn't want him. For the sake of the show, Derek surprise her with a diamond and let's see her change her mind! Diamonds are a girls best friend! Let's have a wedding and live happily ever after! The fans love them together!
greyslover Says:
January 2nd, 2008 7:26 AM
Well seems like everyone is already frustrated about the on-off Merder thing. Reading Patrick's words, it seems like they won't be together anymore, so I suppose that, now they break up, it'll be forever , she won't let them hook up again in 2 or 3 episodes, right :(?
I was also getting frustrated about the merder thing, but they belong together!
honestly, i dont know what to think anymore, so its better not to say anything at all. I am not that into greys like before, for some reasons, i dont get excited about it anymore, however i am a fan already, so i will continue to watch, see what will happen to the characters individually.
ex fan Says:
January 2nd, 2008 1:10 PM
"He can't pine forever for someone who doesn't want him. "
Are you watching GA or another show?
"Derek surprise her with a diamond and let's see her change her mind! Diamonds are a girls best friend!"
What? Meredith isn't Addison.
Sorry but your post is superficial and absurd.
Marissa Says:
January 2nd, 2008 3:13 PM
it's so sad watching grey's becoming a cheap soap-opera episode...it was so promising. keeping mer and der apart cause that's the only way to make it interesting, it's just a silly point. how interesting would be to watch them overcoming mer's issues together, for example see derek wash away with mer her mom's ashes instead of the chief? breaking them up is not the only way to go for the writers, it's just the easy way, keeping fans pined for seeing a reunion, like they can't keep us pined by other storylines
carol Says:
January 2nd, 2008 3:23 PM
it's just stupid! mer has no actual reason not commiting with derek, didn't she have daddy issues in season 2 when all she'd do was pining 4 him?
and derek has no actual reason being so oppressive, he couldn't wait 4 the love of his life more than a week?
it's not convincing, all i see is bored writers using soap operas' technics
greyslover Says:
January 3rd, 2008 7:31 AM
I'm also not as excited about grey's as I was before. It's so nice to watch season 1, 2, some epi's of 3, that was great. But season 4? I think it's as 'bad' or even worse then season 3. Don't get me wrong, I'm still a fan but it's such a pity. It's like they don't have any inspiration anymore for a good storyline. In that case, it's better to stop at a highlight then going on with grey's until no one's watching anymore..
Btw, the last episode is in my country (belgium) also on 10th january. And as it's hours later here then in the US, it means that I will see the last epi earlier then you guys, right:p?
mc'anti-rose Says:
January 14th, 2008 7:56 AM
i agree with ALL OF YOU!! greys is becomin like a weekly torture...cuz every episode brings with it another round of mer-der problems!
pleeez..instead of the new ross/rachel.....cant u make them the new monica/chandler?? keeop the relationship steady and the chemistry alivE?!?!pleeezzzz..pput US OUT OF OUR MISERY!!
January 2nd, 2008 6:29 AM
I'v been reading what everyone said. I think Meredith and Derek make up the best couple on the show. However, in real life if some guy (I'm married 24 years) who I was in love with told me he didn't want to be with me anymore, I would have no recourse but to move on and find someone who would love me. That's what's happening. He wants marriage. She doesn't. He has to move on. It's the way the character is written. He can't pine forever for someone who doesn't want him. For the sake of the show, Derek surprise her with a diamond and let's see her change her mind! Diamonds are a girls best friend! Let's have a wedding and live happily ever after! The fans love them together!
January 2nd, 2008 7:26 AM
Well seems like everyone is already frustrated about the on-off Merder thing. Reading Patrick's words, it seems like they won't be together anymore, so I suppose that, now they break up, it'll be forever , she won't let them hook up again in 2 or 3 episodes, right :(?
I was also getting frustrated about the merder thing, but they belong together!
January 2nd, 2008 12:47 PM
honestly, i dont know what to think anymore, so its better not to say anything at all. I am not that into greys like before, for some reasons, i dont get excited about it anymore, however i am a fan already, so i will continue to watch, see what will happen to the characters individually.
January 2nd, 2008 1:10 PM
"He can't pine forever for someone who doesn't want him. "
Are you watching GA or another show?
"Derek surprise her with a diamond and let's see her change her mind! Diamonds are a girls best friend!"
What? Meredith isn't Addison.
Sorry but your post is superficial and absurd.
January 2nd, 2008 3:13 PM
it's so sad watching grey's becoming a cheap soap-opera episode...it was so promising. keeping mer and der apart cause that's the only way to make it interesting, it's just a silly point. how interesting would be to watch them overcoming mer's issues together, for example see derek wash away with mer her mom's ashes instead of the chief? breaking them up is not the only way to go for the writers, it's just the easy way, keeping fans pined for seeing a reunion, like they can't keep us pined by other storylines
January 2nd, 2008 3:23 PM
it's just stupid! mer has no actual reason not commiting with derek, didn't she have daddy issues in season 2 when all she'd do was pining 4 him?
and derek has no actual reason being so oppressive, he couldn't wait 4 the love of his life more than a week?
it's not convincing, all i see is bored writers using soap operas' technics
January 3rd, 2008 7:31 AM
I'm also not as excited about grey's as I was before. It's so nice to watch season 1, 2, some epi's of 3, that was great. But season 4? I think it's as 'bad' or even worse then season 3. Don't get me wrong, I'm still a fan but it's such a pity. It's like they don't have any inspiration anymore for a good storyline. In that case, it's better to stop at a highlight then going on with grey's until no one's watching anymore..
Btw, the last episode is in my country (belgium) also on 10th january. And as it's hours later here then in the US, it means that I will see the last epi earlier then you guys, right:p?
January 14th, 2008 7:56 AM
i agree with ALL OF YOU!! greys is becomin like a weekly torture...cuz every episode brings with it another round of mer-der problems!
pleeez..instead of the new ross/rachel.....cant u make them the new monica/chandler?? keeop the relationship steady and the chemistry alivE?!?!pleeezzzz..pput US OUT OF OUR MISERY!!