I dont have the quote because I havn't seen the episode yet. But, from what you have said I am reminded of episode 7 in season 3 :"where the boys are". At the end Meredith is talking about her relationship wound from Derek and says that the trick with wounds is to dig down and find the real source of the injury and once you've found it to try like hell to heal that sucker. Now she appears to be saying,inconsistently, that old wounds never heal. Or maybe she has failed at healing the wound from Derek choosing Aderson etc. I really cant buy that.
ausfan Says: October 19th, 2007 3:35 AM
At the end of "Where the Boys are" Meredith was talking about wounds as well. Talking about wounds in her relationship with Derek. I think I might revisit that episode!
Love grey's Says: October 18th, 2007 11:49 PM
Quote at the end:
Forgive and forget. That's what they say. It's good advice but it's not very practical. When someone hurts us, we want to hurt them back. When someone wrongs us, we want to be right. Without forgiveness old scores are never settled. Old wounds never heal. And the most we can hope for is that one day we'll be lucky enough to forget.
Did anyone get tonights quote at the end? THe one Meredith said?
I tried to get most of it - until the end...i missed it. If anyone has it, please post it.
Thank you. Sara
Rachel Says: October 18th, 2007 11:08 PM
omg i want so badly for merder to be happy. i want mer to say yes, i want them to be happy. i want them to live to 110 together, i want them to have really smart, funny hott children together. i want them to spend valentines day in wine country, not just having sex though. want them to talk and be happy. i want it so bad.
Lindsey Says: October 18th, 2007 9:54 PM
hey guys i'm really new to this but i thought it might be the fastest way to find out what song was playing during the scene where the chief is talking to his niece?? it was sooo beautiful and fit the scene so perfectly.
Lindsay Says: October 18th, 2007 8:44 PM
Did anyone get Derek's "I wanna marry you" monologue at the very end in quotes?? that was the hottest thing ever...
ria Says: October 18th, 2007 8:39 PM
omg!!!!! the merder scene was freaking amazing!!!!!! i just wanted her to say, yes yes i love you too, marry me, lets run off together now and get it done! unfortunately, not the case but at least i think they are kind of on the same page now, at least mer can choose a direct path. Im very excited. ohhhhhh!!!!!!
i was also very very happy with the izzie/alex scenes. i knew all along that he was so not over her. george is cute but seriously, its izzie and alex, they're perfect. ohh!!!! gotta say, im in a bittersweet place with callie right now. everything she said was true (esp the "izzie you betrayed your best friend" part, i never even thought of it that way) but i still didn't really like her when she called izzie a traitorous bitch. true, but it didn't make me happy. Callie deserves happiness but i don't think shes gunna find it here at SGH. Maybe she should head south to Santa Monica, tell addison to get her butt back here and work on her already great tan. its a thought. the whole "you didn't love her" scene was pretty amazing too. i kinda wanted her to punch the guy. what an @$$. seriously, the only way you're gunna move in w/ your girlfriend is if she loses 40 lbs. my gosh! @$$. I missed the episode last week so this was my first experience w/ norman. gotta say, he seems stupider than any of the other interns, past or present, but he's got a good heart. i think mark was being very very harsh with mer and norman. seriously, did he wake up on the wrong side of the hair that morning or what? basically, those two are getting the same thing izzie got when she freaking cut an lvad wire! not exactly fair. maybe im wrong but thats the way i interpreted it. I loved the christina/ lexi scenes. really took her down a notch. she'll make a good teacher once she figures out thats what shes supposed to be doing.
one more thing... Adelle. A very very selfish woman. my gosh, you want to keep your niece whose had cancer since shes fourteen alive just so you can be happy? seriously, the girl told them what she wanted. i think she should be entitiled to that and adelle shouldn't have tried to force the chief to do that. he made the right decision. but she just made me really mad. and then to say that he basically chose his career over family. WHAT???!??!??! seriously.
great great great episode. i was very pleased. one of the best (actually the best) since the season two finale. old greys is back!!! im excited!!!! unfortunately im going to miss next weeks episode but its just the halloween one, i don't think im going to miss much.
holy macaroni, i've written a book. sorry, but i had really strong feelings over this episode.
StephRo Says: October 18th, 2007 8:16 PM
That was by far the best episode this season! I LOVED IT! When Derek told Meredith that he wanted to marry her, I yelled at my tv screen, "Say YES you lucky son of a gun!!!! SAY YES!" (sigh) Meredith frustrates me sometimes.... but it was still a FANTASTIC episode!
John Says: October 18th, 2007 8:04 PM
I think today was the best episode of Season 4 so far. It really brought us back to some of the old Grey's which was a lot better and less awkward. Hope things keep up! Btw. I'm really starting to love Callie!
Betty Says: October 18th, 2007 5:24 PM
That clip was fantastic! I don't know what I liked better - Meredith and Derek or Callie and Izzie! So we have a fight and passion? Long live the elevator at Seattle Grace!
SCGreysFan Says: October 18th, 2007 1:36 PM
Thanks for sharing this. This will make it worth watching! Finally some fun and happiness between MerDer. I do hope it eventually results in a real relationship.
Heather Says: October 18th, 2007 12:35 PM
StephRo, thanks for the clip! This episode looks like it's going to be a whole lot of fun!
StephRo Says: October 18th, 2007 12:19 PM
I don't remember finding this video on your website, but I am positive ALL MER/DER FANS WILL LOVE THIS CLIP!!!! TRUST ME, I absolutely LOVE it, and I think Grey's Anatomy NEEDS MORE of scenes like this...
October 19th, 2007 3:40 AM
I dont have the quote because I havn't seen the episode yet.
But, from what you have said I am reminded of episode 7 in season 3 :"where the boys are".
At the end Meredith is talking about her relationship wound from Derek and says that the trick with wounds is to dig down and find the real source of the injury and once you've found it to try like hell to heal that sucker.
Now she appears to be saying,inconsistently, that old wounds never heal. Or maybe she has failed at healing the wound from Derek choosing Aderson etc. I really cant buy that.
October 19th, 2007 3:35 AM
At the end of "Where the Boys are" Meredith was talking about wounds as well. Talking about wounds in her relationship with Derek. I think I might revisit that episode!
October 18th, 2007 11:49 PM
Quote at the end:
Forgive and forget. That's what they say. It's good advice but it's not very practical. When someone hurts us, we want to hurt them back. When someone wrongs us, we want to be right. Without forgiveness old scores are never settled. Old wounds never heal. And the most we can hope for is that one day we'll be lucky enough to forget.
Does anyone have the quote in the beginning??
October 18th, 2007 11:30 PM
Did anyone get tonights quote at the end? THe one Meredith said?
I tried to get most of it - until the end...i missed it. If anyone has it, please post it.
Thank you. Sara
October 18th, 2007 11:08 PM
omg i want so badly for merder to be happy. i want mer to say yes, i want them to be happy. i want them to live to 110 together, i want them to have really smart, funny hott children together. i want them to spend valentines day in wine country, not just having sex though. want them to talk and be happy. i want it so bad.
October 18th, 2007 9:54 PM
hey guys i'm really new to this but i thought it might be the fastest way to find out what song was playing during the scene where the chief is talking to his niece?? it was sooo beautiful and fit the scene so perfectly.
October 18th, 2007 8:44 PM
Did anyone get Derek's "I wanna marry you" monologue at the very end in quotes?? that was the hottest thing ever...
October 18th, 2007 8:39 PM
omg!!!!! the merder scene was freaking amazing!!!!!! i just wanted her to say, yes yes i love you too, marry me, lets run off together now and get it done! unfortunately, not the case but at least i think they are kind of on the same page now, at least mer can choose a direct path. Im very excited. ohhhhhh!!!!!!
i was also very very happy with the izzie/alex scenes. i knew all along that he was so not over her. george is cute but seriously, its izzie and alex, they're perfect. ohh!!!! gotta say, im in a bittersweet place with callie right now. everything she said was true (esp the "izzie you betrayed your best friend" part, i never even thought of it that way) but i still didn't really like her when she called izzie a traitorous bitch. true, but it didn't make me happy. Callie deserves happiness but i don't think shes gunna find it here at SGH. Maybe she should head south to Santa Monica, tell addison to get her butt back here and work on her already great tan. its a thought. the whole "you didn't love her" scene was pretty amazing too. i kinda wanted her to punch the guy. what an @$$. seriously, the only way you're gunna move in w/ your girlfriend is if she loses 40 lbs. my gosh! @$$. I missed the episode last week so this was my first experience w/ norman. gotta say, he seems stupider than any of the other interns, past or present, but he's got a good heart. i think mark was being very very harsh with mer and norman. seriously, did he wake up on the wrong side of the hair that morning or what? basically, those two are getting the same thing izzie got when she freaking cut an lvad wire! not exactly fair. maybe im wrong but thats the way i interpreted it. I loved the christina/ lexi scenes. really took her down a notch. she'll make a good teacher once she figures out thats what shes supposed to be doing.
one more thing...
Adelle. A very very selfish woman. my gosh, you want to keep your niece whose had cancer since shes fourteen alive just so you can be happy? seriously, the girl told them what she wanted. i think she should be entitiled to that and adelle shouldn't have tried to force the chief to do that. he made the right decision. but she just made me really mad. and then to say that he basically chose his career over family. WHAT???!??!??! seriously.
great great great episode. i was very pleased. one of the best (actually the best) since the season two finale. old greys is back!!! im excited!!!! unfortunately im going to miss next weeks episode but its just the halloween one, i don't think im going to miss much.
holy macaroni, i've written a book. sorry, but i had really strong feelings over this episode.
October 18th, 2007 8:16 PM
That was by far the best episode this season! I LOVED IT!
When Derek told Meredith that he wanted to marry her, I yelled at my tv screen, "Say YES you lucky son of a gun!!!! SAY YES!"
(sigh) Meredith frustrates me sometimes....
but it was still a FANTASTIC episode!
October 18th, 2007 8:04 PM
I think today was the best episode of Season 4 so far. It really brought us back to some of the old Grey's which was a lot better and less awkward. Hope things keep up! Btw. I'm really starting to love Callie!
October 18th, 2007 5:24 PM
That clip was fantastic! I don't know what I liked better - Meredith and Derek or Callie and Izzie! So we have a fight and passion? Long live the elevator at Seattle Grace!
October 18th, 2007 1:36 PM
Thanks for sharing this. This will make it worth watching! Finally some fun and happiness between MerDer. I do hope it eventually results in a real relationship.
October 18th, 2007 12:35 PM
StephRo, thanks for the clip! This episode looks like it's going to be a whole lot of fun!
October 18th, 2007 12:19 PM
I don't remember finding this video on your website, but I am positive ALL MER/DER FANS WILL LOVE THIS CLIP!!!! TRUST ME, I absolutely LOVE it, and I think Grey's Anatomy NEEDS MORE of scenes like this...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyVXesIPEEo