I was so upset when I read this info today about this person being offered a role for a few episodes especailly since we are all thinking she will be tied to Dereck! I had already convinced myself she was nobody and the promo was just to get everyone upset! (which they did a great job at that). YOU Don't Mess With our Mer/Der Shonda!
I had already thought of a great scenario about what could happen Thursday night........
Dereck is in the bar and that Mcgirl asked to buy him a drink...naturally he is flattered that she is paying him some attention (since lately Mer has not) and turns her down for the drink. He does strike up a conversation with her and talks about his relationship with Meredith. Meredith walks in and sees him at the bar with the Mcgirl. (She is not real happy with what she sees.) The Mcgirl excuses herself (for whatever reason) and Meredith goes up to McDreamy and says..."Hi, I'm Meredith Grey and reaches for his hand. He says "what are you doing?" and she says, "I'm so sorry for not letting you in, lets start over", etc.
And he gives her that McDreamy smile and they kiss!!!!! Wouldn't that be a great thing to happen?????? (If SHonda only knew how much we obsess over this show and in particular Mer/Der)!! I'm really anxious for THursday night, but in a way very nervous because I'm afraid that the Mcgirl could be trouble!! (Then I thought, maybe somebody needs to put alittle fire underneath Meredith), I just don't want him (Dereck)to do the McNasty with her! (ha) He loves Meredith and I hope he remembers that when that Mcgirl is smiling at him......(I already don't like her and I don't even know her)...(ha) ............Very Worried!!!!!
hafsa Says:
May 8th, 2007 6:20 PM
if you know what is good for you, you will pack your bags and go back to where ever you came from girl from the bar.
Thing 4 Ferry Boats Says:
May 8th, 2007 7:50 PM
The woman who collapes is Adele. If any one has it tivoed, slow it down. It's obvious that it is her.
Felicia Says:
May 8th, 2007 8:46 PM
Im prejudging someone I have not seen yet but McSlutty better leave Derek alone. He belongs with Meredith.
Burke Backer Says:
May 8th, 2007 8:46 PM
I agree with Thing 4 Ferry Boats. The collapsed woman in the elevator is Adele. Also, I think the new woman is going to be Meredith's sister Lexie and that is why she is on the show for several episodes in season 4. I don't think any thing at all will happen between Derek and this new girl. She is probably in town for her mother's funeral and there will be some story arch about Meredith and this step sister who is also a doctor. Maybe she will be a new intern in season four wanting to move back home because she is worried about her father. It will be a relationship between Meredith and Lexie, not Lexie and Derek.
They play such games with our heads. Franky it is beginning to make me less of a fan. I loved this show. I love Burke, but I like most of the other characters too. Now I have had an entire year of nervousness. The writers had him shot in season two, left with a tremor and a horrible secret for most of season three, now after this build up and promise of a wedding since Shonda's People interview back in October, everyone is predicting a break up. That isn't why I watch television. I watch to be entertained not a nervous wreck about a fictional couple. Greys used to have a great blend of humor and angst. Now it is just one heart break after another.
I really believe that Shonda will play with Meredith and Derek for the entire length of the show. Friends did the same thing with Rachel and Ross and that formula seemed to work really well for them. The difference is there was so much humor on Friends that you could forgive the breakups between Rachel and Ross. We don't have that much humor, even less that usual this season, on Greys, so the break ups are just sad and depressing.
I am trying hard to stay positive about Burke and Cristina's relationship in the wake of all of the speculation and rumors. We have watched both characters grow and change in positive ways all leading to this wedding. If it doesn't happen I am through waiting for some happy resolution. But, I have no doubt that Derek and Meredith will never be a part for long. That is Shonda's schtick. Give us a little happiness and then snatch it away. She doesn't care much about Burke and Cristina so I don't have confidence that she will let them stay true to their characters and stick with each other. But, she is committed to Derek and Meredith. Listen to her podcasts and read her blogs. Derek and Meredith are the big deal and everything else is secondary, even Gizzie that for some reason we are having shoved down our collective throats. I really don't think the Mer/Der fans have anything to worry about. Without tension between Meredith and Derek she doesn't have a show, so they have to stay connected.
jilly Says:
May 8th, 2007 9:34 PM
All I can say is, mess with Mer/Der and Shonda and McSlutty are going to have about half of America real pissed off at them. Look out for the hate mail!
merder4ever Says:
May 8th, 2007 10:35 PM
all i have to say is if they leave the season with a bad note for merder then that's it! i'm done with this show
Mafis Says:
May 8th, 2007 11:07 PM
I can't say I'm, done because I don't know if I'm gonna stay with my promise, but I know two things
1- poor woman, we don't even know her and we hate her already LOL!, It's funny, because I call her character sluttybarwhore hahahaha, so I hate her already, but she (the actress) seems nice, and she is cute too ^^, so, only hating sluttybarwhore, not her real life alter-ego LOL!
And 2- I don't want this girl to be Lexie, why?. Well, Mer and her father have a really bad relationship, and the slap thing has made the things worse, so, Mer doesn't need to have her stepsister working with her at the hospital, because this girl is daddy's little girl, the daughter Tatcher loves so much and is "super proud" of (according to Molly). Mer doesn't need to remember every day that she never had that with her father, and the situation could be worse if this girl have something with Derek, why?, the answer is simple: Mer felt like crap when she has to deal with Der married to a super gorgeus perfect and always dressed up woman, so, imagine how she is gonna feel when she watch her super pretty, talented and "daddy's little girl" stepsister having something with Derek?... Inferiority complex, people, this is what is gonna happen, and writing Meredith like that again (self pity, inferiority "she looks like a movie star and I don't" complex, and probably again into the bottle sleeping with wrong guys)?, not original, season 2 2.0... total and complete garbage!
And I don't want garbage, I want my show back!!, and messing with the main couple introducing a possible couple wrecker sister of the main female character?, and then messing with the other favorite couple's wedding making mad a lot of fans (including me, because I love Cristina and Burke too)?, that is not my show, that is soap opera, and if I wanted to watch soap opera, as a Latin American viewer, I'd better stayed watching soap operas from Colombia, Mexico or Venezuela instead of waste my time watching something good the writers are messing with.
Sarah Says:
May 9th, 2007 1:49 AM
In her mind, maybe Shonda planned a great future for MerDer but the fans are wanting to see them happy now. Another rival won't be acceptable.
Ross and Rachel and their breakups were boring. MerDer are different. I hope.
elletrick Says:
May 9th, 2007 1:56 AM
Please Shonda...don't do this me
I'm not strong enough...I've been thru a lot this pass few days...please don't add to my misery..
You really think someone would go to a pub when her mother just passed away? Shocking!!
I will watch till May 17 and if my passion for GA did not return I will stop to be obsessed with it. There are enough other series that are worth my time. I still have season 1 and 2 to heal my painful disappointment of part of season 3.
What I would miss is your company.
Bonnie M Says:
May 9th, 2007 4:14 AM
Somebody on another web site heard he was a psycologist that is supose to help one of Derek's patients. Maybe Derek ask her advise about him and Meredith . It's possible because when we hear them say she could stir things up for MerDer we just asume it in a bad way. Derek said he did'nt know what to do. Let's face it they love each other and at this point they need help because they are not getting anywhere on their own. A happy thought is she can help them in season 4 and by season 5 thay can get married then by season 6 they can have a baby. OK maybe I am getting carried away but this is my favorite couple on my favorite show I can wish.
well hopefully you're right, about the psycologist thing. i agree with everyone i cant stand mer/der broken up AGAIN. this is not Friends, and even ross and rachel drove me crazy w/ their break ups. but they were always over stupid crap. mer/der keeping having wives come into the picture, and vets, and near death/suicide experiences. now what? mcslutty barwhore whoever she is asking mer's mcdreamy if he wants a drink? can i just say WTF SHONDA?!
I love Patrick and Ellen Says:
May 9th, 2007 12:54 PM
sorry, I didn't mean to post but once.
McDreamy_MmMmM Says:
May 9th, 2007 2:11 PM
My friend thinks that the bargirl is another one of Derek's sisters.
i don't know.
whoever it is...i hope that this bargirl is a lesbian!
I love Patrick and Ellen Says:
May 9th, 2007 2:43 PM
Not sure where my comment went.....I thought it posted twice, but now I don't see it at all..whats up with my computer???????
Greys Is For Lovers Says:
May 9th, 2007 9:53 PM
She better be either Mer's sister or one of Dererk's sisters.
Or I am going to flip out.
alana Says:
May 10th, 2007 7:16 AM
there has always been trouble in meredith and derek's relationship but its always been resolved eventually. yes there might be some trouble with them at the end of this season and the beginning of next season and maybe even to the middle of next season but im pretty confidat that it will all be resolved as it always is.
Debs Says:
May 10th, 2007 8:23 AM
I wonder how Ellen feels about thought of someone trying to steal her on-screen McDreamy away from her. Because Addison already stole him away. But he went back to Meredith in the end,
Debs Says:
May 10th, 2007 10:13 AM
I hope keep they keep Mer/Der together & if they do i hope they sex them up a bit in season 4. Because iexcept for the last episode. every time you saw them bed together they always had their cloaths on.
hafsa Says:
May 10th, 2007 5:01 PM
Hey Debs, i just read your comment about merder always having their clothes on during sex scenes. The thing is that there is an electrifying chemistry between PD and EP that can put a house on fire, them doing a scene not with their cloths on is going to be too much. So lets just leave them with their clothes on..lol. Merder all the way!!!
Me Says:
May 10th, 2007 8:21 PM
I am SOOOOOO ****MAD**** about this whole Derrick and Meredith thing. I have been a faithful viewer and so have many of my friends but if you "the writers" don't fix this and stop messing with Derrick and Meredith's relationship…you are definitely going to lose viewers...including me. I don't give a rats a** about the girl from the bar....but if Derrick doesn't stop it and make up with Meredith....then you might as well cancel the show because it will all of been a waste of money and time!!!!!
PLEASE....get you act together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
steffi Says:
May 11th, 2007 12:19 AM
Hi "Me", I just have to correct you since you mentioned so man times about Derrick ;) It's Derek honey! ^.^
Addison_Grey Says:
May 11th, 2007 9:16 AM
Did you see the previews for the season finale? Did George actually say that Callie is preg? I hope not. I for one never really liked them together. George and Izzy is who should be together. But I do love Callie and her personality, I wish they could find someone else for her. I just have always thought from the beginning way b4 George and Callie that George and Izzy would be together and I was right. I just hope that Callie isn't preg that would so complicate things. Although, I am hoping that Callie finds someone that "fits" her to.
Crystal Says:
May 11th, 2007 8:14 PM
I just wonder what the heck you guys who think nothing should ever come between Derek and Meredith is going to keep anybody watching? You seriously want to tune in every single week to see them holding hands and smiling at each other? I mean serioulsy? This is a DRAMA.....if they don't break up and get back together, etc, then where is the storyline? It would be like watching paint dry. Everyone would be complaining that "the show is so boring now! Mer/Der are like a boring old couple with nothing going on! Come on Shonda give us something to be excited about!" Really. I just don't understand what you people expect?
May 8th, 2007 4:27 PM
I was so upset when I read this info today about this person being offered a role for a few episodes especailly since we are all thinking she will be tied to Dereck! I had already convinced myself she was nobody and the promo was just to get everyone upset! (which they did a great job at that). YOU Don't Mess With our Mer/Der Shonda!
I had already thought of a great scenario about what could happen Thursday night........
Dereck is in the bar and that Mcgirl asked to buy him a drink...naturally he is flattered that she is paying him some attention (since lately Mer has not) and turns her down for the drink. He does strike up a conversation with her and talks about his relationship with Meredith. Meredith walks in and sees him at the bar with the Mcgirl. (She is not real happy with what she sees.) The Mcgirl excuses herself (for whatever reason) and Meredith goes up to McDreamy and says..."Hi, I'm Meredith Grey and reaches for his hand. He says "what are you doing?" and she says, "I'm so sorry for not letting you in, lets start over", etc.
And he gives her that McDreamy smile and they kiss!!!!! Wouldn't that be a great thing to happen?????? (If SHonda only knew how much we obsess over this show and in particular Mer/Der)!! I'm really anxious for THursday night, but in a way very nervous because I'm afraid that the Mcgirl could be trouble!! (Then I thought, maybe somebody needs to put alittle fire underneath Meredith), I just don't want him (Dereck)to do the McNasty with her! (ha) He loves Meredith and I hope he remembers that when that Mcgirl is smiling at him......(I already don't like her and I don't even know her)...(ha) ............Very Worried!!!!!
May 8th, 2007 6:20 PM
if you know what is good for you, you will pack your bags and go back to where ever you came from girl from the bar.
May 8th, 2007 7:50 PM
The woman who collapes is Adele. If any one has it tivoed, slow it down. It's obvious that it is her.
May 8th, 2007 8:46 PM
Im prejudging someone I have not seen yet but McSlutty better leave Derek alone. He belongs with Meredith.
May 8th, 2007 8:46 PM
I agree with Thing 4 Ferry Boats. The collapsed woman in the elevator is Adele. Also, I think the new woman is going to be Meredith's sister Lexie and that is why she is on the show for several episodes in season 4. I don't think any thing at all will happen between Derek and this new girl. She is probably in town for her mother's funeral and there will be some story arch about Meredith and this step sister who is also a doctor. Maybe she will be a new intern in season four wanting to move back home because she is worried about her father. It will be a relationship between Meredith and Lexie, not Lexie and Derek.
They play such games with our heads. Franky it is beginning to make me less of a fan. I loved this show. I love Burke, but I like most of the other characters too. Now I have had an entire year of nervousness. The writers had him shot in season two, left with a tremor and a horrible secret for most of season three, now after this build up and promise of a wedding since Shonda's People interview back in October, everyone is predicting a break up. That isn't why I watch television. I watch to be entertained not a nervous wreck about a fictional couple. Greys used to have a great blend of humor and angst. Now it is just one heart break after another.
I really believe that Shonda will play with Meredith and Derek for the entire length of the show. Friends did the same thing with Rachel and Ross and that formula seemed to work really well for them. The difference is there was so much humor on Friends that you could forgive the breakups between Rachel and Ross. We don't have that much humor, even less that usual this season, on Greys, so the break ups are just sad and depressing.
I am trying hard to stay positive about Burke and Cristina's relationship in the wake of all of the speculation and rumors. We have watched both characters grow and change in positive ways all leading to this wedding. If it doesn't happen I am through waiting for some happy resolution. But, I have no doubt that Derek and Meredith will never be a part for long. That is Shonda's schtick. Give us a little happiness and then snatch it away. She doesn't care much about Burke and Cristina so I don't have confidence that she will let them stay true to their characters and stick with each other. But, she is committed to Derek and Meredith. Listen to her podcasts and read her blogs. Derek and Meredith are the big deal and everything else is secondary, even Gizzie that for some reason we are having shoved down our collective throats. I really don't think the Mer/Der fans have anything to worry about. Without tension between Meredith and Derek she doesn't have a show, so they have to stay connected.
May 8th, 2007 9:34 PM
All I can say is, mess with Mer/Der and Shonda and McSlutty are going to have about half of America real pissed off at them. Look out for the hate mail!
May 8th, 2007 10:35 PM
all i have to say is if they leave the season with a bad note for merder then that's it! i'm done with this show
May 8th, 2007 11:07 PM
I can't say I'm, done because I don't know if I'm gonna stay with my promise, but I know two things
1- poor woman, we don't even know her and we hate her already LOL!, It's funny, because I call her character sluttybarwhore hahahaha, so I hate her already, but she (the actress) seems nice, and she is cute too ^^, so, only hating sluttybarwhore, not her real life alter-ego LOL!
And 2- I don't want this girl to be Lexie, why?. Well, Mer and her father have a really bad relationship, and the slap thing has made the things worse, so, Mer doesn't need to have her stepsister working with her at the hospital, because this girl is daddy's little girl, the daughter Tatcher loves so much and is "super proud" of (according to Molly). Mer doesn't need to remember every day that she never had that with her father, and the situation could be worse if this girl have something with Derek, why?, the answer is simple: Mer felt like crap when she has to deal with Der married to a super gorgeus perfect and always dressed up woman, so, imagine how she is gonna feel when she watch her super pretty, talented and "daddy's little girl" stepsister having something with Derek?... Inferiority complex, people, this is what is gonna happen, and writing Meredith like that again (self pity, inferiority "she looks like a movie star and I don't" complex, and probably again into the bottle sleeping with wrong guys)?, not original, season 2 2.0... total and complete garbage!
And I don't want garbage, I want my show back!!, and messing with the main couple introducing a possible couple wrecker sister of the main female character?, and then messing with the other favorite couple's wedding making mad a lot of fans (including me, because I love Cristina and Burke too)?, that is not my show, that is soap opera, and if I wanted to watch soap opera, as a Latin American viewer, I'd better stayed watching soap operas from Colombia, Mexico or Venezuela instead of waste my time watching something good the writers are messing with.
May 9th, 2007 1:49 AM
In her mind, maybe Shonda planned a great future for MerDer but the fans are wanting to see them happy now. Another rival won't be acceptable.
Ross and Rachel and their breakups were boring. MerDer are different. I hope.
May 9th, 2007 1:56 AM
Please Shonda...don't do this me
I'm not strong enough...I've been thru a lot this pass few days...please don't add to my misery..
May 9th, 2007 2:02 AM
You really think someone would go to a pub when her mother just passed away? Shocking!!
I will watch till May 17 and if my passion for GA did not return I will stop to be obsessed with it. There are enough other series that are worth my time. I still have season 1 and 2 to heal my painful disappointment of part of season 3.
What I would miss is your company.
May 9th, 2007 4:14 AM
Somebody on another web site heard he was a psycologist that is supose to help one of Derek's patients. Maybe Derek ask her advise about him and Meredith . It's possible because when we hear them say she could stir things up for MerDer we just asume it in a bad way. Derek said he did'nt know what to do. Let's face it they love each other and at this point they need help because they are not getting anywhere on their own. A happy thought is she can help them in season 4 and by season 5 thay can get married then by season 6 they can have a baby. OK maybe I am getting carried away but this is my favorite couple on my favorite show I can wish.
May 9th, 2007 8:11 AM
well hopefully you're right, about the psycologist thing. i agree with everyone i cant stand mer/der broken up AGAIN. this is not Friends, and even ross and rachel drove me crazy w/ their break ups. but they were always over stupid crap. mer/der keeping having wives come into the picture, and vets, and near death/suicide experiences. now what? mcslutty barwhore whoever she is asking mer's mcdreamy if he wants a drink? can i just say WTF SHONDA?!
May 9th, 2007 12:54 PM
sorry, I didn't mean to post but once.
May 9th, 2007 2:11 PM
My friend thinks that the bargirl is another one of Derek's sisters.
i don't know.
whoever it is...i hope that this bargirl is a lesbian!
May 9th, 2007 2:43 PM
Not sure where my comment went.....I thought it posted twice, but now I don't see it at all..whats up with my computer???????
May 9th, 2007 9:53 PM
She better be either Mer's sister or one of Dererk's sisters.
Or I am going to flip out.
May 10th, 2007 7:16 AM
there has always been trouble in meredith and derek's relationship but its always been resolved eventually. yes there might be some trouble with them at the end of this season and the beginning of next season and maybe even to the middle of next season but im pretty confidat that it will all be resolved as it always is.
May 10th, 2007 8:23 AM
I wonder how Ellen feels about thought of someone trying to steal her on-screen McDreamy away from her. Because Addison already stole him away. But he went back to Meredith in the end,
May 10th, 2007 10:13 AM
I hope keep they keep Mer/Der together & if they do i hope they sex them up a bit in season 4. Because iexcept for the last episode. every time you saw them bed together they always had their cloaths on.
May 10th, 2007 5:01 PM
Hey Debs, i just read your comment about merder always having their clothes on during sex scenes. The thing is that there is an electrifying chemistry between PD and EP that can put a house on fire, them doing a scene not with their cloths on is going to be too much. So lets just leave them with their clothes on..lol. Merder all the way!!!
May 10th, 2007 8:21 PM
I am SOOOOOO ****MAD**** about this whole Derrick and Meredith thing. I have been a faithful viewer and so have many of my friends but if you "the writers" don't fix this and stop messing with Derrick and Meredith's relationship…you are definitely going to lose viewers...including me. I don't give a rats a** about the girl from the bar....but if Derrick doesn't stop it and make up with Meredith....then you might as well cancel the show because it will all of been a waste of money and time!!!!!
PLEASE....get you act together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 11th, 2007 12:19 AM
Hi "Me", I just have to correct you since you mentioned so man times about Derrick ;) It's Derek honey! ^.^
May 11th, 2007 9:16 AM
Did you see the previews for the season finale? Did George actually say that Callie is preg? I hope not. I for one never really liked them together. George and Izzy is who should be together. But I do love Callie and her personality, I wish they could find someone else for her. I just have always thought from the beginning way b4 George and Callie that George and Izzy would be together and I was right. I just hope that Callie isn't preg that would so complicate things. Although, I am hoping that Callie finds someone that "fits" her to.
May 11th, 2007 8:14 PM
I just wonder what the heck you guys who think nothing should ever come between Derek and Meredith is going to keep anybody watching? You seriously want to tune in every single week to see them holding hands and smiling at each other? I mean serioulsy? This is a DRAMA.....if they don't break up and get back together, etc, then where is the storyline? It would be like watching paint dry. Everyone would be complaining that "the show is so boring now! Mer/Der are like a boring old couple with nothing going on! Come on Shonda give us something to be excited about!" Really. I just don't understand what you people expect?