T.R. Knight Confirms Slur Was Made, Resulted in His Coming Out Comments (Page 2)

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  1. luvthisshow Says:

    would someone please explain to me why IW would be calling TRK a name when it was PD he was supposedly angry with for being late to the set? why is TRK involved? has that ever been established? i don't think we ever had the whole story. but ya know, whatever. i'm just pissed that we are all discussing this yet again. let it be done once and for all.

  2. luvthisshow Says:

    so much for them saying they were all over it in the oprah interview, eh? LOL it was far from over obviously, since TRK is speaking about it still and KH as well. the only one who is maintaining any decency is PD -- he has taken the high road from the very beginning.

  3. Bonnie M Says:

    If people would quit talking about it and asking questions about it then it would be over and done with. Some people just don't know how to move on.

  4. MH Says:

    Personally, I don't think IW called him a fa****! I think there was an off color comment made from IW to PD and TR Knight overheard it. Maybe he wanted the publicity, maybe he was tired of being in the closet publicly and used it to push any negative views off of him and onto someone else in his coming out or maybe he was just offended. Who knows. I would be interested in knowing if IW had a few drinks at the GG. Maybe it relaxed him a little and when that reporter brought up the incident he got a little angry and was trying to clear it up. It made things worse, but that would help me to understand why he wouldn't just be quiet.
    I have a hard time thinking that IW walked up to TR and called him that to his face with no remorse. As diverse as the show is, and as fair as Shonda is, I wouldn't think she'd have a problem giving anyone the axe, main character or not. I think there is just a lot more to the situation.
    I have no doubt with all of the accounts that the word was said. But at no point in anyone's account does IW call TR a fa**** to his face.

  5. purplemerder Says:

    I don't think he said that word to TR's face....i think it was overheard...but it still hurts.....i don't want IW to get fired I just think he shouldn't have said what he said at the GG/

  6. tombaker Says:

    I believe Isaiah. So what if TR thought he heard something....his co worker says he did not. And TR is being very very snippy by going around acting like a wounded victim. A man would have just sucked it up and accepted the apology. Now you have TR and his best friend trying to get the strong black dude written off the series.

    TR claiming he had to come out because of this does not pass the sniff test.

    BTW FWIW his character on the series is gay, but has not come out, the writers are waiting. But you can tell by the way he rejects girls, and is wounded when he gets laid just to get laid. That is totally gay

  7. josh markus Says:

    nobody uses the word faggot anymore, especailly in a hated argument. Maybe the word fag. But that is a different sound.

    My guess is he was listening in on to guys fighting and heard a combination of words that he made up in his own mind as being the word faggot.

    It is far more likely it was a different combination of words....and since the other Actor is denying it....I think this much to do about a simple misunderstanding.

    Has TR confronted Asiah directly?

  8. KIKI Says:

    Give me a break....
    Move on, they said they squashed it...Rosie made fun of chinese people then apologized. Let's move on. The media needs to let it go ....Let's just rty it again;;;;;;

  9. Deborah Says:

    This show, writers, directors, actors are all hypocrits in regards to professing anger against using slurs to describe a set of people, beliefs, etc.

    In the 5/7/06 episode, "Synopsis", "Dr Bailey", played by Chandra Wilson, a black woman, refers to an family coming into the ER as the "hick show", hillbillies, etc simply because they are from the south. This was spewed by Wilson, as Dr Bailey, with venom and disgust at the thought of having to treat a southern family. The southern family was portrayed, AS USUAL, as loud, ignorant, red necks, with poor manners and grammar. The actors portraying this family, AS USUAL, over-emoted with the over-done thick accents, mannerisms, etc., all at the behest of the writers, director, etc.

    While everyone on the set is crying about Isaiah Washington using a slur, I don't hear any outcry for the degredation, on a daily basis, for the disgusting language used to describe people from Appalachia, southern states, etc. They are the last group of people that can still be belittled in public and on the airwaves, with no repercussions for the perpetrators. I guess we haven't met the PC threshhold yet.

    Even in the description of the episode on the official Greys Anatomy, the family was described as a loud, Southern family, as if capitalizing the word "southern", would emphasize the disgust felt toward this group of people. The line was delivered in the episode by a "black woman", or should I use the "N" word? NO?

    There is no excuse for this phony outrage from the show or the actors as long as the writers, directors, AND actors have no qualms in humiliating, slandering, or belittling another set of people in their race for ratings.

    Horray for Hollywierd!

  10. Nanci Says:

    I am disappointed in IW. He shouldn't have said it and he shouldn't have raised the issue again at the GG. However, I don't think he should be fired. Look Mel Gibson made racist remarks about Jews and he's gone on to make another movie and will continue to do so. People are racists, sexists, and homophobes. It's sad. And it is horrible that IW did this. He's very arrogant. But, that doesn't mean he should be fired necessarily. However, if he continues to make remarks and becomes a divisive force in the cast, then of course he should be fired. The question is have relationships on the set been so destroyed by this latest remark that there is no continuing on or not. Shonda, in any event, should make a strong public statement against IW's actions and a statement supporting TR and supporting diversity.

  11. purplemerder Says:

    maybe he should be fined or something....don't they fine athletes for doing bad stuff.....
    and to say that people would boycott is wrong too......IW is one character....why make the other characters suffer for what he did....i think if he is fired it would not be shondras decision so why make her suffer.

  12. James Says:

    Not only is he a FAGGOT he's crying like a BITCH about it.
    We are all called names in our life I have a 1000.00 that Isiah was called a NIGGER a few times in his life.

    Grew up you and stop being a Bitch

  13. Lester Vernon Ct Says:

    I think it is very sad that IW has said what hes said. In a world that has started to accept alternative life styles this does not help. I have a uncle that is gay and a aunt too. they are the most lovely people that i know. IW needs to get some help and deal with these feelings. as far as greys go i think he should go also....the cast of greys are extreamly talented and to have one that has said and done what IW has is unacceptable... TR my hat is off to you and good luck in allthat you do.. I am behind you 100%...

  14. Burke Backer Says:

    Hi Bonnie. You are so wise and so right and you just keep trying to get us back to the subject of the show we love and the people who inhabit Seattle Grace. I agree with you so much in my head. Intellectually I know you are right. Then I read this awful hateful nonsense and my heart makes me respond. Faggot. It's a word. We have decided it is beyond horrible. TR has decided that it defines who he is and so if he overhears it he has to announce to the world that he is gay. Therefore by default the person saying the word must be a horrible, hateful human being. My heart goes out to Isaiah that he is being so villified and misunderstood. Some of the comments are just so over the top that I find myself compelled to respond. Even if I did not love Isaiah and love the character of Burke I would feel the need to defend this man who has had to carry all of this hate on his back for a slip of the tongue back in October and trying to correct the situation in January. I'm sorry. I know I am disappointing you because you just want the whole thing to blow over. I do, too. But I can't sit here and read this junk without at least asking them to think about it from the other perspective.

  15. Kim Says:

    I, for one, do not care one way or the other, whether TR is gay is not a concern of mine. I just want to say that he does a fabulous job on the show and that's all that matters, that he goes to work and performs. The rest is none of my business.
    As for his cast member using, what I consider, a cruel word, is sad but it happens. My husband has a word that he would use to IW's face, and it is not nice or acceptable either.

  16. OMally_girl Says:

    sorry BurkeBacker but i TOTALLY disagree. I mean, TR even said that everyone on set heard what he said. Don't you find it odd that Isaiah Washington is the only one who DENIED that it happened? Katherine Heigl did, and she was FURIOUS. In quote from Golden Globes, "you now what, im gonna be very honest right now, he needs to just not speak in public. period. im sorry, it just did not need to be said. and i am not ok with it. i have no idea what it was, i just, i find it hurtfull. i dont know, i dont know, i feel like this should be something that should be very much in house and i, feel like it should be somthing to deal with. among us and among all of the casting crew, and shondra ofcoarse and our producers and hopfully we can work it out. i dont, you know, i dont... it's just somthing i am flumboxed by, i dont get it. TR's my best friend, so i will throw down for that kid. i will beat you up! i will use any ounce of energy to take you down, if you hurt his feelings."
    reporter: was TR hurt this evening?
    "umm...i dont see how you cannot be under the sercomstances. drawing attention to it and saying it again was unneccesary." i think that proves my point! hehe

  17. Burke Backer Says:

    Seems like we have been over this before, O'Mally Girl, and I don't mean to keep repeating myself, but Isaiah did not deny using the term, he denied calling TR the term. TR believes he overheard Isaiah referring to him by the term. Katherine Heigl told Ellen in her original interview right after it happened that she wasn't on the set but heard about it. I heard her after the Golden Globes and you know what, she should not have spoken either. Her words were supportive of Knight but hurtful to Washington and they are both her castmates. It was inappropriate for her to publicly take sides. She can be TRs best buddy, but that wasn't the time for her to say anything at all. I have far more respect for Sandra, Patrick, Chandra, Justin, James, Eric, Katie Walsh, and Sara who managed to get through the whole debacle without adding fuel to the fire. So I am sorry that we disagree and do respect your right to see it differently, but we disagree. From the stand point of the show and the fans of the show there was nothing gained by either Katie Heigl's comments or TRs appearance on Ellen. Let me ask you, if you overheard someone referriing to you as a derogatory name, would you run to the press or would you confront the person doing the name calling and find out why they did it, what they meant by it, what their problem was? Particularly if it was the very first time the person had ever said something like that and if I considered the person to be like family, I would confront them with what I thought I overheard. But I would not be so vindictive as to want people to hate that person and call for his job. That doesn't seem to me to be in the best interest of the show or the fans who love all of the characters and don't want to lose any of them over something that really only impacted me.

  18. Justin Says:

    Do you not screen these comments? Why would you let people who are hatemongers the right to voice their comments here? Anyone using the F* word is spreading the same low brow attitude that we need to evolve above. It is just admittedly an embarrassment for them to leave those comments but it is also an offense for those with any measurable I.Q. to have to read. Please screen better in the future. Thank you.

  19. germangirl Says:

    hello
    i am from germany, so i didnt know the word "f****t" can someone explain the word for me, please??

  20. Kym Says:

    I do not understand why "faggot" or "fag" is such a bad word. If you are a homosexual man, then expect to be associated with those words, as well as queer, gay, sissy and other words I know are offensive (so I'm not listing them). It's just a word.

  21. Comments by rose Says:

    I believe that people make to much of comments like this. I believe people who have specific agenda's look for such comments and blow them up. I am so tired of having to walk on egg shellls to stay "politically correct." I believe if TR had a problem with it he should have confronted Isaiah about it. I am a minority, because I'm a hispanic woman - but I don't cry out UNFAIR everytime someone calls me by names I don't appreciate. I say GROW up and deal with it like a man TR. I believe that this is not about the word, "FAGGOT" it's about some one's political agenda.

  22. Rosalia Says:

    Oh please TR get over it. Grow up people. Many of us have been called worse on the play ground in grade school. Now the only reason I might now want to watch the show now is because you won't be believable with as a heterosexual!

  23. Odlan Says:

    As I read all the comments, I have noticed the level of ignorance and uneducated people that actually have the nerve to speak of their opinion as if it is a fact. For those who commented by saying that the "F" is of no importance, how would you like to be called a name that you know it minimizes you as human being, no one does so stop being so hypocrite about it. I'll bet that you are the first ones to complaint about the problems of the world. It takes more energy and effort to be mean to one another than to be kind and respectful.

    You know for a fact that if the "N" word is use in any situation, there would be such turmoil. Have we forgotten the incident with Richard from the character of "Kramer", he use the "N" word and you so what happened.

    Is it so hard to say the word GAY or is it your own insecurities that make you angry. Those who cannot be themselves attack those who are. This is not rocket science to figure this out and because of people such as some on this site, saying the "F" is not a big deal or that he deserves it (this last one is the icing on the cake) is observe and immoral.

    The main point here is that morals and values have been forgotten and place with anger, jealousy, and hatred. A very good example is demonstrated on this site.

  24. AMJ Says:

    So Sad... I think that TR is so cute and Would love to let him know that. The show would NOT be the same with out him and I sure hope That he stays with it. The world is a bad place when people are always looking at what we do and how we do it. Just remember that the Lord is the only one who can judge us.

  25. Gwen Says:

    Don't quit and don't run. Hold your ground and stay with the show. The show is not about your personal life. I enjoy the show with YOU in it. There is always someone who is not happy with something so if they have a problem you can not run from their problem they (problems and people) are everywhere. You are not flaunting anything or trying to change anyone's life style. You are doing your job. Don't be pushed from here to there to please anyone.

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